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Long distant relationship on the rocks?

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Uptown-Boy (Age:36 to 45)     When: 5 months ago
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Ok so I'm in a LDR with the amazing women or so I think. For 17 months we have talked every day and made visits as well with intentions of me moving to her and start a life. Well for almost a year July 4th to be exact we have been serious and committed. The last 6 of it have been rocky and harsh words exchanged between us. Well it finally happened and she wanted space/break up and needs time. Well she has been very cold hearted and I've been an emotional wreck so to speak. It really does not seem like it is bothering her but I could be wrong. So she wants to take this break until July 7th which is killing me because we have talked every single day since we first met. I will be moving there early next year or so I hope. Anyway she has been so rotten and has said some really horrible things to me. Now I had said some pretty bad stuff my self not to long ago and it hurt her really bad. I never meant any of it but things got so frustrating and I snapped. She says she needs this break to see if we are strong enough so we will know if we will be strong enough for each other and if any thing is still there she wants to do it right this time. She is 26 and I am 35 so I wonder if the age gap is playing a role in it. Also I know that being the distance we are apart is playing a role as well. I don't know, all I do know is this sucks because I have never felt this kind of pain before and I just don't know what to do. Any advice would be great?

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sheena (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
First of all, age has nothing to do with this situation. Some of your problems can be the long distance, but I believe it it something more. She is just not telling you. Sometimes people can be so close to you, and the next minute their is a gap between the two of you. You might want to hold off the moving in part and find out what is really going on with her. Because, if you and this person do not live in the same town. You really don't know for sure if she is dealing with another guy, or if she is having a family issue. And she seems like she is angry right now and taking it out on you. She needs to be more open with you and tell you the real reason why she is acting this way. You do not deserve this kind of treatment, at least she can be woman enough to let you know what her problem is. Because, I cannot see myself talking to guy that I care for so dear, for over a year. Then all of a sudden I am being mean to you and telling you to back off, when you have not done anything to upset me. Then obviously something is not right. If, she wants you to back off, then maybe you should. But , I know in your heart you really care for this woman and you do not want to back off with out knowing what is going on with her. Maybe, call her and ask her to tell you the real reason, why she is doing you so wrong.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Take it from a 18 year old woman I am living a distant relationship at the moment for 7 months but we seen each other many times & the days are amazing he's a 23 year old guy I really care about !<- well just maybe she does need time to think and be really but really sure of what she wants and this facts are real & okay but once you start to feel frustration try to work it out & don't let it hit ur buttons because she may make a decision you won't like and will affect both, as you must know all bad pains make you stronger !
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Question Asker Right. It is very hard though at times. - 5 months ago
 

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