FEELINGS CHANGING

Yeah I never married the girl but I couldn't like live like I was going through so much stress after that break up... I thought bout suicide and all that that's how destroyed I was.

I have personally been in the situation like this but many girls don't like to me pushed back in fourth & it hurts when someone uses the world love because it is a strong word ! but if you really feel this way for her I suggest you let her know that you made a mistake & better not do it again because getting your heart broken hurts like hell.

Your really keen on getting married huh? I just want to give you a little scenario, My best friend is with my cousin, when they were first together he treated her like shit, never saw her, always left her till last, always out with the boys, cheated on her, you name it, he did it. Then he broke up with her because he was feeling suffocated, she asked for my advise and I told her to just let it settle, to just forget about him and move on, she did this and it killed him... Then one day (3 months after their break up) he called and said he wants to see her... From that day its like his been a completely different man, he treats her like gold. None of us ever thought he would be able to be so good to a girl but all he needed was a little discipline and he learned how to appreciate her.
Similar scenario with my boyfriend except he was he wasn't mean to me, he just sad straight out he wasn't ready for a relationship and to be with just one person so I let him go. I did my thing he did his, I let him see that my whole world no longer revolved around him and he didn't like that, when I was gone he realized how much I did for him and how good it was to have me around and exactly 1 week later, he wanted me back again. I didn't go back to him though, because I knew if I did he would of thought "if that's how easy it I to get her back I may as well do it all the time" so I made him wait a month, in that month he asked me out 4 times, I said yes the fourth time and I swear his all I ever wanted him to be and more I think because his realized that life without me isn't so great and that he'll never take me for granted again because it was so hard to get me back and earn my trust again.