I am currently in a relationship with my Fiancee' of four years and I feel so bored and annoyed with him. Its at a point where I can not stand to have conversations with him because of what I perceive as his backwards way of thinking. I don't even have the desires to have sex with him anymore. It wasn't like this in the beginning but now its bad. We have a two year old and I don't want to leave him or break our family up because of our son.Does anyone have any advice, please?
It's said that kids would rather come from a broken home than live in one. So don't use the child as the reason for staying in a bad relationship.
However, I do suggest that you guys at least try to make things work. Counseling is a good step but you both have to want the relationship to work. You may discover that it's not only him that's causing all the difficulties and you have to be prepared to make changes yourself. Relationships do take work.
If, after the attempt, you are still feeling this way then it is time to move on. At least then you can move on knowing that you tried and that can leave a lot of baggage behind that you won't carry with you.
Honey you already got one foot out the door anyway, emotionally that is. If you've exhausted every avenue to try to work this out then maybe it's time to think about moving on. I know you are worried about your son, but would you rather stay there and raise him witnessing the dysfunctional relationship you're having with his dad? Also it will only be more traumatic to your son if you leave when he's older anyway. And the way it sounds, it's not a matter of if you leave, its a matter of when. Good luck to you.
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