should you go for the one you are absolutely crazy about and wanna make happy but are not sure if he reciprocates those feelings to you or a guy who has those feelings about you and you are not particularly attracted to him? which one will endure a better relationship?
The one you are crazy for. If he is a good enough guy, he will eventually fall in love with you. You need to go after what you want in you're or you will never get anything. You're only human. You can't make yourself attracted to somebody you aren't truly attracted to.!
If the same were to apply back to us?if the one who loves you relentlessly pursues you in the hope of winning ur heart? else wen the one who you relentlessly pursue begins to treat you like a nuisance? - 2 months ago
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Well you didn't ask for me to tell you what YOU thought. You said you wanted my opinion. Why would I settle for less? What happens if the one that loves you is a murderer. Or he's abusive. Then what? Tell me now smart one. At least the one YOU love will most-likely be a good guy; or there has to be a REASON for loving him! - 2 months ago
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Nope, all the while am asking he opinions of others, not to get what I think. what I have been wondering is is attraction a conditioned phenomenon or just a gut feeling. for that matter a good girl might have a gut level attraction to a jerk as well but might not have as intense feelings for a nice, settled guy. that is entirely a different issue. Am just curious to know which builds a healthier relationship that provides a girl comfort, security , happiness and of course fun in life. - 2 months ago
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Hahaha you lost me after Nope, ..... - A month ago
neither will have a great realtionship as each one is a one sided thing but if it was me id have to be with the one I love and hope he would grow to love me lol
This actually applied to me. I was dating a man whom I adored but when we discussed our relationship he didn't return my feelings to the same extent. So I started dating a man who treated me like gold, worshiped me, but I just couldn't bring myself to fall for.
Luck or fate would have it that the guy I originally dated became horribly jealous, and tried to get me back. I was stuck, be with the guy who knew a good thing as soon as he saw it, or go back to the guy who just realized it when another man had it. I feel bad, but my heart wanted what the first guy still. We've been together for 3 years now, and we're getting married. I guess if you never take the risk you'll never know, but in the meantime who says you have to wait alone!
I don't really have an answer but I LOVE this question!
I guess the romantic thing would be to go for the one you love and see if he reciprocates. But there is always the chance of failure. Whereas the one who loves you is a "sure thing". I don't think I could go for the sure thing if I wasn't at all attracted to him though. I would have to at least care for him a lot and know that we could get a long well. Similar views on important issues, that sort of thing. Because you can't maintain a relationship without that sort of stuff.
What new things can I try to make my relationship better? I'm stuck for ideas, I am constantly surprising her with flowers and small gifts but what...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I usually ask the girl where she wants to go and try to create something based on that. Typical stuff, dinner, maybe a movie, bowling. Ideally I would give her a short kiss goodnight if things went well but that's the most. I wouldn't push for too much more.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
I would tell her about my job and a little bit about my family to give her an idea of my background. I would hope she would think I am a genuine and caring person.
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