Is sex important?

do some thing romantic and focus on the things that you guys link on and just tie and hang their as much as you can

Well once the attraction is over then so is the relationship, this is prob what's going to happen he's going to get pissed off at you because you don't want to have sex with him anymore, and he will either cheat or break up with you because of that. I remember one of my ex gfs did that to me she was like we just don't have anything in common anymore and I don't want to have sex, so yeah we tried to work that out didn't happen, it came to the point of where I told her look if your not on the same page as me anymore, then your going to force me to cheat on you, and then she told me go ahead and cheat I don't care. So we fought more and more and she basically started to hate me, and I got fed up with it you can't go from having sex to not having sex. So after 4 years we called it quits. My advice get out of the relationship cause one of you is going to evenutually cheat.

That would depend on why the differences between you two make the idea of sex seem icky. May people still are fine with sex even when they have differences in other areas. So where does icky come from? If it's not something that's likely to change then I say move on.

Wow.that is tough! As a guy then yes, sex is an important part of a relationship. If I didn't want to have sex with my girl then it would automatically send red flags up in my head! I guess that's what is happening with you.

Can you get those feelings back? I don't know. Are you bored with him? Does he know you feel this way? He's probably frustrated that you want to sleep with him. Maybe you guys should do something romantic and talk. See how it goes.

After two years, however, I would suggest giving it a chance. There must be some chemistry hidden under the surface! Don't throw away two years without at least trying.

in a friend to friend relationship NO.
but in a romance relationship YES, in fact very important.


lady I deeply feel you, that happened to alots of people as well.

I think something is wrong if you went from desiring him so much to being repulsed by the idea of having sex with him. I'm not sure how the rest of your relationship is aside from sex. Do you adore him? Or do you not really mind moving on? In my experience, those old feelings didn't come back to be and I felt it was wrong to him to stay with him and live a lie, so we broke it off. I'm happy I still have him as a friend and I think that's because I got out of our relationship before I hurt him too badly and rejected him too much.

I think that you should talk to him first about your relationship concerns. See what he has to say and has been feeling. It's really up to you. There must be a legit reason why you have stayed together for 2 years. Then again, there's also probably a very valid reason why you've come to this crossroads.

Sex is a very important to any relationship. However, there are other parts (contraire to common belief.) to consider. That being said, I think the fact that you feel "icky" when it comes to sex with him rather than feeling nonsexual with him must have some underlying issues as well. They might not be the kind that you can solve. You can't force feelings that you don't have.

I wish you the best of luck, whatever decision you come to.

If you guys have been together for 2 years then I guess it wouldn't hurt to give your relationship a chance. Talk to him about how you feel and see what he has to say. I think sex is important but only in terms of your own comfort level - if you feel "icky" than for you in this case, sex may not even be an important aspect. I know that if I didn't connect with somebody, I wouldn't even take sex as an option of being important or not - it'll just be about where I stand with that person.

Talk to your boyfriend and see what happens. But as of now, if you don't feel anything for him, maybe the chance of getting back the "old feelings" is low. However, before you break up with this guy, make sure he knows how you feel and see what he has to say (for the sake of 2 years together).

Goodluck.

i think its possible to get back those old feelings but its going to be hard. maybe you should share with him how you feel or possibly take a break so that when you get back together you will appriciate him more. I'm no expert but I would talk to him about it. I hope you get things worked out! good luck!