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Get a hobby, other than sitting home and being on the net feeling sorry for yourself. It's hard to hear yes I know, and it seems harsh when I say it that way. Although, it's the truth, after my divorce even if I sat around the house and hung out on my comp, even to edit a video; my self control was deeply hindered. That opportunity to communicate keeps showing it's ugly face. Whereas if you get out, go for a walk, take your dog out for a walk, enjoy a beautiful day, go do that thing you've been wanting to do/or get done for just, "YOU" and nobody else lately but haven't had the time. I promise you if you do these things, that other person will disappear in your life. You just have to, "Want" them out of your life that badly, and have some self control/ initiative. You also need to realize these things will not happen all at once, these thigns take, "TIME" unfortunately things do take time. I know with our Instant gratification world we live in now days that doesn't sound pleasent. Though, think of it this way, "Even if you go out and do something, and you don't think about that person for 5 seconds the first day, that's 5 seconds you weren't thinking about him now isn't it?" Keep that up, and before you know it 5 seconds turns to 5 min, 5min turns to 5 hours, 5 hours turns to 5 years. Before you know it, the person is gone from your life, and your mind, and it becomes as if you don't even know them anymore, and as if you never really did to begin with. Works very well, although as I stated takes effort and will, and determination on your behalf, nobody else can do that for you. You have to want it for nobody else other than yourself.
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