lets say you are dating this guy. He's really nice to you. Maybe you are starting to get bored. do you play with him and test him? See if he will buy the shirt you want him to buy even tho he doesn't want it. Tell him you like a certain type of cologne and see if he buys it?
If so. why? and second once you realize he will does do these things will you get sick of him?
I would never do that. I think it's cruel. I don't think it's good to go around playing with peoples emotions. But yeah girls will do that. I think sometimes its more to see how much they can get a guy to spoil them. But not all girls are like that.
This is confusing for me to answer. but firstly, no, I wouldn't test a guy like that. Usually I can tell what they would/wouldn't do from past experiences with them. I personally don't like the 'nice guys' that would do anything for pretty much anyone because then I don't feel like I did anything to deserve it. But if he's usually not like that, and then suddenly he starts doing everything for only me, I'd probably really appreciate it and I wouldn't want to take advantage of it. I don't know if that helps at all lol. & as for the girl saying "you should __", I just say things like that as a suggestion when I think the guy would probably enjoy it or something, not because I'm trying to boss him around or something :]
I wouldn't test a man to see what control I have over him. That's not cool. That being said, my ex told me, openly, that I had him wrapped around my little finger. He said that I could make him do whatever I wanted him to. That doesn't mean I did it, nor would I ever. I think if girls do test their boyfriend, it`s just because the girl is insecure, and she`s hoping that her boyfriend is weak.
No, no, no. I'm totally against that and am only attracted to people with an individualism I can admire. A man's tastes and choices is what makes him interesting in my eyes.
maybe she really likes you but she wishes that you would change your style and leading you towards things is the easiest way for her to tell you to change without being mean. she's not testing how much control she has she just doesn't want to tell you " hey I hate the way you dress "
(but that's the answer with the example you gave.)
Stay away from those women my friend, they will try everything to get their way, if you choose to get with one, which I am assuming you have, then you gotta keep the control when it comes to those women, if she says buy this shirt just for the hell of it, this is what I would say, you want me to buy that shirt, the shirt I don't like and if I do buy it will just sit in my closet and be a waist of money, then by all means if you want it so bad then you can buy it for me and I might consider wearing it. If they whine, complain, or bitch, and say things like well I guess you really don't like me then, don't fall for it, they are basically to put you on a guilt trip. I was with a girl like that once and she tried everything to gain control over everything, and I didn't let her.
A women do that type stuff, cause this girl is doing that to me right now we went on two dates and she told me all this stuff and everything, but am I going to do it, of course not don't ever do it.
I have dated two girls who have told me "you should get your own place" and "you should get a dog" why do women think after two dates they can start telling me how my life should be lived? - A month ago
The easiest to counteract would be sweetly saying "Yeah for you I would get a dog".. "Yeah for you I would get my own place, why don't you ask me that again in a few months time?" . I.E. use it to your advantage. - A month ago
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Lol that's EXACTLY what I have to learn! thanks man. - A month ago
I like this guy who I have been with before a few times. but I've only when I have had a few drinks. He is always looking at me and waits until we...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Er... right, my ideal first date would be a nice meal somewhere nice. This would hopefully be a good setting where we could chat and get to know each other. We could then go somewhere for a walk to carry on the conversation. The night would then end with me walking her home and with any luck a plan for when we could meet up again
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date would probably know my life story *blush*. No, she would know exactly what she wanted to know about me. She would hopefully notice that I'm not a guy that expects sex on the first date and that I really enjoy listening to what a girl has to say
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