Am I a bitch? Playing games..

i am in a similar situation, though she might love me back. I think you should stop, because if you like him you'll want to stay his friend until he breaks up with his girlfriend, and then you can get him to like you back. but if you try to break him up with someone he likes, he may not want to go out with you when he does break up.

the waiting sucks, so try to see if you think he will be with her longer than you can wait. if you are as in love as I am, the waiting will be torture and it may be better to try ignoring your love until he is available.

if you really want to steal him, just be subtle.

Let me start by saying NO you aren't a bitch just a little misguided as I am. You are motivated, diligent and convincing. You sound like a strong young woman to me and if that's a bitch well I guess I am one too. You know what you want and you go after it without regard to the obstacles that may stand in your way. If he were married than we might have moral issues but he's not so it seems so your just trying like every other woman out here to get yours so to speak. I am a woman--sorry to disappoint there, but I am in a similar situation. We were friends for about 8 months b4 we slept together--so the feelings are more intense I would imagine. It is a tough situation for me because I am damn near 30 and I want a future with someone. You are young and have so much to see in life so many experiences to have. But my advice would be 2 things 1.) Give him an ultimatum (guys hate them, but they can help you see clearly where his head is at.) tell him clearly and concisely her or me? 2.) Fuck him like a porn star one last time---treat him like a five dollar hoe and then you cut him off, completely---not calls, no sex, not e-mails, no communication at all. Takes a lot of balls to pull it off if you are really in love with him. If he cares for you more than he is letting on he will make every attempt to see you be with you, men don't know what they have until it is gone it seems. If not his calls will stop coming and he will eventually fade away. Prepare yourself by grieving his loss now, no not his death but you grieve all loss in your life. Try to engage him less, think about him less, talk about him less, get your mind right, because if you choose to go through with option 2 you are gonna have to do some mental preparation, study the hard bitches out there Charlie Baltimore (Long Kiss Goodnight), Catwoman-esq attitude, and Robin Givens character in Boomerang----as the Sex and the City girls would say have sex like a man and loose all communication. This should totally work for you because if you initiate the sex then he know exactly wen to expect a call or visit from you--if you cut all communication he will be totally baffled and miss you--you might be able to actually get him. If you do make sure he cuts all ties with his lady because men are know to keep us dangling on a thread so we don't leave them. But know if you keep him around he is gonna do the same to you. Option 2 is my fav---b/c you get some revenge and a quick confidence boost, knowing that for that moment you held the reigns.
Good Luck and let us know how things work out.

Your only a bitch if you encourage him to cheat and he does cheat and then you break it off with him once he's cheated but your falling in love him but he doesn't love you so you encouraging him to cheat might show an hidden agenda like you want to hurt him. Your playing games with him, mind games with him and if he's responding positively then it shows that he is curious and curiosity killed the cat which shows that he is sexually attracted to you.
So my question is do you want to hurt him? If so then do it one of you are going to get hurt and it might as well not be you.
If I was in your situation, I would seduce him, make him cheat and just ravel in his guilt once he's realized what he's done. But then that would be a bitch thing to do. You falling in love is bad because your more likely to get hurt in the end so if your ok with ruining a relationship for your own benefit then do it, if your not then leave him alone and try to move on. Are you willing to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend?