I have known my new boyfriend for 3 months and dated for 2 months I see him about once or twice a week. I had sex with him after hanging out with him at bars for only two weeks.
He is 28 and I am 23. He was treating me like a booty call and I dumped him via texts and he came back and asked to talk. We both agreed to be a couple after the big talk.
I never see him on weekends. he always seems to be busy on weekends and seemed to always have good reasons.
Last time we hung out, he had to get something from his parents house, he parked the car so far away that I couldn't even see which house he was going into (he doesn't live with his parents tho) And on the way back, he had to get something again, he dropped me at a supermarket near by and told me to chill there for a few minutes while he took care of some business. I thought that was extremely weird.
He is very busy/successful. He celebrated his birthday with just me and calls me everyday for like 15 to 20 min.
Am I worrying too much? Or is something going on? What should I do? Any advice will be greatly appreciated!
Update: I don't know if I should add this, but I used to hang out with his friends at the bar, and they know we are seeing each other.
5 months ago
Sounds like he might have someone else, also like you may still be a booty call., you are his dirty little secret. I am sorry it sounds horrible but think about it, think of how in movies married men are deceptive like this not calls to the house, you get the work number or cell. Driving miles out of the area to go to dinner so no one sees you. Either he is a shady drug dealer or attached to another woman and using you for sex. You are still his booty call don't confuse it for a bf-gf relationship, he is using you for sex so use his ass back. If the sex is good get it mamita treat him like the $5 hoe he has been treating you like screw him don't call-text-e-mail nada, then when you feel like he has sweated enough get you some more.If the sex is trash cut his ass off--cause you don't know why he is hiding you what he is keeping from you and you don't wanna end up dead from a deal gone bad. I know it is guys answer and all but I have been through stuff and seen stuff with like experience and education. Don't get angry by my seemingly harsh words, sometimes the truth hurts. Good luck!
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