I met this guy a few months ago online started talking and everything was going well so I agreed to meet him and I did on Saturday I thought everything was going well then I get home got a few texts saying he liked me but wasn't sure if he liked me so I told him and he said he did. So sunday I get a txt saying that yeah he likes me but he realizes he not really looking for a relationship right now but still wants to see me again if he doesn't want anything why did he say he likes me and still wants to see me again? And before he use to txt me loads but hardly ever now have I done something wrong? How can I make this guy want to be with me?
The key is to just be yourself. If you act different to catch him, eventually he learns more and it won't last. He needs to like the real you enough to want more than just a date here and there.
It looks like now he doesn't like you much anymore in person. It happens quiet often that two persons like each other online but just don't click together in person.
And you can't really make a guy want to be with you. You could take a look at what makes him tick and improve on those issues.
Thing is though when we was together it was just like how it is online or on the phone just silly randomness and it was nice well I thought so anyway but he wants to see me again maybe he really isn't ready for a relationship right now so I'll have to work on that for now. - 2 months ago
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by dated I mean, talking to on the phone, going out and doing fun things, and hooking up.How long did it go on for?Did you end up being committed to...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would most likely be in blue jeans with a nice shirt or T-Shirt depending on where we go. Early in the date I would enjoy a quit dinner where we actually could talk and find out if we thought it might work. If things clicked ok, I might suggest that we go for a round of drinks and dance or go have a few drinks and shoot pool. If the weather is right we most likely would have been on my Harley.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
One she would have been able to judge if I as the type of guy she'd want to see again. The same goes here. I think I would have opened up enough to let her know my goals.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 2 months ago
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