i had been with a girl for 4 years. a few months back, she tells me she wants to see this new guy. and then I find out that she's been flirting with him for awhile and then kissed him within a week of being with me. by the next week, she was spending the night at his place.
being a total wuss, I pleaded her to not do this cos it was wrong and to give us a chance. she said she wanted me as a friend in her life just in case things don't work out with him. fight resulted.
and then when I went ahead and tried to be a friend, she started comparing me to him. telling me stuff about how he was better and how she felt terrible that he hadn't gotten a blowjob, even tho he's dated so many times. finally I found out that she was telling people I was suicidal because I wanted to be with her.
anyway, at this point I was really pissed off and I said she acted slutty. I realize it was horrible of me to say that to any woman. but I was just really upset, angry, sad. and this was my best friend of 4 years talking about me to random people.
how wrong was I when I said that? we talked for a month after that trying to see if we could patch up but we just kept fighting because I wanted her back. and she obviously didn't cos she was sleeping with him. is she using this time to hate me more?
You obviously said it out of anger and no it's not right, but yes it's understood. I think you shouldn't waste your time with her. She seems really insecure with herself and until she grows up, she may be that way always. You don't need that. Find a gal who will be with you, love you and enjoy you. It takes time for anything, but now is not forever. goodluck!
WTF?! why are you still talking to this girl?! move on man don't stick with this girl in anyway, I used to like this girl who I was real good friends with for about 3 years and all she ended up being was drama so I ended it and I've been happy ever since. Drop it apparently she is just gonna use you for attention believe me move on and ignore this girl
Thanks bro. I needed to hear that. I couldn't see her as this new and changed person. we haven't spoken to each other for over 4 weeks now. her last message was "i still love you.. and ill always care for you" ... lol. yep. thanks tho. - 5 months ago
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