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Was I wrong to do that?
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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So me and my ex broke up because she still had feelings for her ex. Later finding out that she never ended it with him. They are together now. This obviously made me very angry she screwed me over I would do anything for her and this is how she repays me well I decided to get even I know earlier in their relationship that she cheated on him he never found out so I made a bogus myspace and messaged him telling him that she cheated was I wrong to do that or is payback a bitch?
Update: Can I get some more advice please?    5 months ago
Update: Well he just looked at it I went on his page and saw he logged in on the 2nd. Which might explain while she's not answering my texts.Wow and the funny thing I don't feel bad about it I guess I'm a heartless bastard that's ok    4 months ago

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sarah1122 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
go for it.
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vmw2008 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Payback is a bitch and I can see why you would be upset. But seeing her get what she deserved without doing it yourself would have been so much sweeter than telling her boyfriend about her cheating. Now the revenge isn't as great because you have a reason to feel somewhat guilty. Plus.karma's a bitch too. This could come back on you.
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Question Asker Yea I know and like I said I feel really bad about it It makes me feel sick that's how bad I feel about and it sux because me and my ex are getting along great right now but every time I talk to her I'm going to have that stuck in my head. Also if she found out that I did it she would ruin my relationship with this girl I'm trying to date. I smoked weed once ever a few months ago with my ex and this girl found out she would never talk to me again I know my ex would tell her - 5 months ago
 

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drstms (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
I have to say joseph19 is right. In my experience, when I leave vengeance up to God, He does a much better job at both making sure they reap what they sow, and making sure they receive it in a way that draws them closer to Him, or at least doesn't drive them farther away. I would suggest deleting the myspace page though, if he hasn't seen the message yet. That will lessen the impact and might allow the truth to come out less painfully.
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Answerer More than likely your not feeling bad about it now is because you have already processed the events leading up to this rejection, so it isn't hitting you as hard as if you hadn't. The question and comments prove you were processing it, so I would say this is confirmation you have processed it adequately, to move on. - 4 months ago
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joseph19 (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Thats not for you to say. I think it would be best to never log on to that myspace account again and never mention anything about it. I never seek revenge on a girl no mater the situation, so I think it was wrong.
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Question Asker Yea I don't plan on it I I don't even have a myspace not my thing. But I don't seek revenge either I feel really bad about it and I am always telling people here not to seek revenge now I did it - 5 months ago
Answerer Thats good, does she know it was you? - 5 months ago
Answerer Thats good, does she know that you did it? - 5 months ago
Question Asker No she doesn't know. I just did it so her boyfriend hasn't even seen it yet probably won't for at least a couple days I'm sure ill hear about it - 5 months ago
 
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