Hello All. I have a really good friend that I've known since the 8th grade. We were just friends and I really enjoy talking with her and hanging out, etc...
Well, she has been having problems and has recently moved out of state. Here's the thing, I didn't know she moved a few months back. I just found out about a month ago. We have since lost contact. I tried her cell phone many times but it was disconnected. I just got a card/letter from her that was kind of weird. In it she states that she tried to call me before she moved but that I didn't answer her call. The only time I don't answer my phone is when I am at work or when I don't recognize the number so if she called from a new number and didn't leave a voice mail, that might explain that.
Also, she said, before she moved, she saw me in a store and I ignored her. I don't recall seeing her at this store she mentioned. If I would have seen her, of course I would have talked to her. But again, I don't recall seeing her at the store.
In her letter, she says she found my address online and she didn't include a return address. She also said that she doesn't know why I ignored her and that she will give me my space and will not try to contact me again. I have no idea what could have brought this on. I know her brother really well and have called him. He is busy with 2 jobs so we rarely get a chance to talk. The last time I talked to him he said he would let her know when I asked about her and told him to give her my number and tell her to call. I asked for her number but he couldn't remember it offhand. The thing is, I can't say for sure he even told her or remembered to tell her what I said. He is known for being somewhat unreliable in that area. Also, I did not tell him what the letter said, just that I got a weird letter from his sister. Also, the fact that she didn't simply talk to him about getting in touch with me or asking for my address lead me to believe that maybe they are not on speaking terms. That has happened before.
Try looking her address up on the internet. That is how she found you.
Try talking to the brother again and ask for her address or write her a simple note and give it to the brother to stick in the mail.
Sounds like she is REALLY depressed. People that depressed sometimes start thinking no one likes them. Hence why she thinks you ignored her in the store. Also sounds like she likes you a lot. So much that she can't see clearly when it comes to you.
When to go for the number? I'm not a guy who can get a girls number after 10 minutes of meeting her. I have, like, two numbers from girls and that's...
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