He says they are “for his memories” but there are LOADS of photos of her (and a few topless-tasteful btw) posing. For instance, there are about 10 of her with ‘a new hair-cut’, about another 10 in an outfit. I don’t mind holiday photos but the others feel too, well, intimate. I can’t think of what ‘memory’ a picture of your ex could give you from the photos I’ve mentioned apart from adoring/lustful/thought provoking memories. I would love to be told I’m being unreasonable, and why I’m being unreasonable so that I can put an end to these potentially unreasonable feelings!
Update: Thanks so much for your answers. I've decided to get some really great shots of me and place them strategically in the middle of the folders (on his PC) of her. thoughts?
3 months ago
That is his history and you can't change it. My girlfriend (and now wife) found several nude photos of previous girlfriend (in a book of quotations I was sure no one would ever read, damn english majors). She smiled and handed them to me and said it was nice that I kept my memories. The funny thing is the girl in picture had insisted that I throw out a pair of panties that I kept after a memorable weekend with another woman (I refused, fwiw).
He's with you, believe that and be secure in it. You can never wipe out his past and trying just makes you seem insecure and demanding. If you are worried about them, I would suggest giving him a better set of pictures of yourself.
Well you need to tell him that if he truly loves you and only you he needs to quit looking at these provoking photos of his ex. he needs to put her behind him because he has you and needs to focus on a new loving relationship with you if you two are going to stay happy
You are not being unreasonable. Some girls even hate having the ex mentioned, let alone have photos lying around.
I do keep pictures of my ex, it's a time of my life that I really don't want to forget. Pictures are as good as a storybook, but I keep them tucked away in a box at the top shelf of the darkest closet so to speak.
i honestly think this guy is wrong for you , it is a disrespect , if he does not respect you. Would he be ok if you did the same , and what would be the point of being with each other if each one of you needs to get his groove on, when looking at someone else's picture don't you see that this is really not the right thing to get involved in let him be if he really wants you then he will throw them away and come back to you if he doesn't its because he never was with you entirely.
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