How screwed am I?

Yeah, not the smartest move. But still, it really depends on how close you and your friend are and how forgiving he is. Also it depends on how much he loves his girlfriend. My best suggestion is to beg for forgiveness.

U just broke all the rules.OMG.what kind a friend have you been to want his girl.There are plenty girls out there besides her.MAN I hope you get the chance to explain yourself

aha well that wasent the smartest move to tell her.but anyway I guess it depends how long you two have been friends and if your friend really loves her. if he loves her you're prob. really screwed but if not he prob. won't care as much as he says or act like he does. but you should just confront him and see if both of you are willing to put it behind you.

listen to our elders here. they know what's up.

The question is how he found out. How many people knew? If she told him, it was either because it didn't go over very big, or she's using the fact as leverage with him for some reason. "See? Other guys like me, so treat me right." There are other possibilities, but that's what I picture. Its one thing if he's not feeling insecure or threatened. But if he feels it's going to mess with his relationship,. then, pretty screwed I'd say.

Well, I would say that it won't do you any good to continue to beat yourself up about it. I think that if you are sorry that you did it, you could ask him to forgive you but maybe give him some space to let your apology sink in. Also, maybe you could apologize to her too to make sure that he knows that you aren't going to try to try to take his girlfriend from him. Stuff like this happens - especially when we really like someone and don't know what to do about it. So, I would make all of your apologies but lay low for a while because the ball really is in their courts then as to whether they want to forgive and forget or whether you have ruined these relationships. If they cannot forgive, then I would just take it as a lesson learned and move on, but if you show real remorse for your actions, I can't see them or other people being mad at you forever. Just give them some time to get over it afterwards because your friend might feel betrayed by you and really hurt and angry at this time. In the meantime, you could also make other friends. Good luck!

You took the risk and will suffer the consequences. Realistically, even if she had accepted your advances, how could it have played out in a way that would allow you to keep both your friend and the girl? He would have found out sooner or later. So, now you'll potentially have neither, unless your friend is willing to forgive you.

Dude,

You're breaking all kinds of bro code, and now you want to know how bad it is?

You know how bad it is. Say you're sorry if you get the opportunity, but you can pretty much kiss off your circle, they are not going to talk to you now.