Well I am still kinda seeing this girl. We talk and text alot, but she has a total opposite work schedule than me so I only see her 1-2 times a week. Well anyways, I went to kiss her on her cheek last night for the first time to see her reaction, well as I going for her cheek, she went for my lips so it was a messed up situation. We both kinda said that was awkward, but after that happened she ask, "So what are we?". I told her we are whatever she wants us to be because I know she wanted to take things slow and didn't want to push her away. I told her that I really like her, love being around her and her family, which last night was the 3rd time with the family within the month I met her, and also said if she wants it to still go slow that is cool. Anyways, next time I get to see her is this coming Tuesday and then most of next weekend. We are taking our first roadtrip to see a Cardinal/Cub game. Well should I take the risk and now just go for the kiss or do the cheek thing again?
Also, if she is wondering what we are, should I just continue going slow or assume, she wants this to be an exclusive relationship? I just don't want to rush her and scare her away. She was in previous bad relationships and been cheated on and so far I have been the total opposite of those idiots.
Update: Just want to see if I can get some answers from some girls on here from what she was possibly looking for after she said "What are we?"
4 months ago
She went for the lips and you went for cheeks, she is ready for a little passion. Next time you see her, kiss her and make it sweet and heartfelt. You remember the words of the song, "If you wanna know if he loves you so, it's in his kiss, that's where it is." So, it's ok to kiss her because she has said so by going for the lips. Plus, if you go for the cheeks again and she goes for the lips again then you will feel the same awkwardness as before. You could even ask her before you go for the lips if you could have a kiss--I'll bet cha her answer will be yes. Let us know how it goes. Take care.
You went for the cheek and she went for the lips and then she asked what are we, yes dude kiss her, walk up to her say your going to take her out to dinner or something so shell prob dress up a little, walk up to her say hey babe, and then say you look beautiful tonight. Then run your finger lightly over her face, smile and then if she has long hair put it behind her ear and move in closer, and bam there you go kiss her. It's quite simple if you ask me.
I think that you should go for the kiss on the lips, it sounds like she wants to be more than friends, so I would go for the kiss but give her time to react she will move away if she doesn't want to, so go for it, also you said she already went for the lips, so yes do it, hope this helps. -good luck-
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