This guy and I have known each other for years. We've liked each other in the past but due to bad timing (several times), nothing has happened. I've just recently seen him after not having seen him in 3 years because of going to schools far away from each other. We've talked between that time but nothing more. Right now he has a girlfriend of more than a year. When I saw him (it was with a small group of mutual friends) he said several things that made me wonder what he was thinking about where we stand. He was talking about how his girlfriend can't cook at all, and asked me if I could. After saying yes, he completely agreed and said "You're going to make a great wife someday." He also made the point to ask if I ever get angry and continued with asking if I had ever been angry at him (most likely I think this was in regards to if I had ever been angry we hadn't gone out in the end or that we don't talk often since he has a gf). I'm really confused as to whether we may still have a chance of going out sometime in the future still? (he's graduating soon and his gf's home is europe. he should be moving back home.) Any advice would be great thanks.
Is there still a chance? I can tell you profoundly yes! There was a girl that I was instantly attracted to and we had some mutual friends. But it always seemed that I was with someone or she was, and it never really matured beyond that point. Then my (now ex) girlfriend and I broke up, she saw it on facebook, hunted me down, asked me to meet up with her, and we have been together ever since October. It's going great, we couldn't be happier and I think that she is "the one".
Sometimes, I guess patience pays off. Thank God that she contacted me in the manner she did because I wouldn't have thought I'd have a chance to be with her, and she sought me.
This same situation happened to me.I can tell you from experience to be optimistic, and patient.If you want something you need to go for it. I strongly believe in fate, and what is meant to be will be. Although you do need to respect the fact that he does have a girlfriend, you do not have to give up on the idea of possibly being with him someday. I do think it is important that you stay in contact with him and continue your friendship. If you want to be with him then I think you should tell him. However, go back to the respect part of this answer. you still need to acknowledge that he has a girlfriend in a respectful manner. If you really want to try things with this guy then just wait it out a little longer. You said it yourself, he'll be moving back, and his girlfriend will be moving to Europe. Good Luck
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