ok me and this guy from work are friends that secretly well f.we are on the dl big time to avoid office gossip plus it's no ones business anyways. was thinking it is a really cool arrangement because yes we are just friends but we have this extreme sexual connection. However yesterday he came by my desk at work and was talking to me for 15min.(which we never do- could create gossip) and brought me a present. Today he wrote me an email saying that a girl we worked with asked someone else if he happened to have a girlfriend. I didn't think twice about it until ran into him in the halls and he asked me what I thought. I had already forgotten about it and I replied "about what? lay-offs?" and he said "noo. what I told you earlier" does he want me to be jealous? what is going on with him? is he falling for me and is this becoming something more than we had arranged?
Seems like he wants to be your main thing and he wants to know if you are emotionally invested in your arrangement. If not, then I would start to slowly back off because it will only intensify over time. So, are you and would you do more if it weren't for the office issue?
Just think about it because you may have to answer this to your "friend".
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