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What could have changed her?

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phill (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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a while back I was like good friends with a this girl she was awesome we would all ways hangout in the garden with 2 other guys talking that all we ever do this was way back in elementary school lol I'm in high school now and just thought about it and deiced to write about it anyways so she was great I had this secret crush on her for the longest time I want to ask her out but I was god damn so shy the year later was when the table turns she just changed her personality was that even possible first we stopped hangout stopped talking it all just ended I don't know why my friend actually told be that she had a crush on me the year before she changed damn it there was my chance and I didn't notice I guess I thought I couldn't do I want to tell how I feel but she's a bitch to me now we may talk sometimes on msn but that's about it . I can't I can't tell her but I want to what should I do I'm running out of options

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*StillWater* (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
You are just like a guy I once knew. He was 'secretly' in love with me for 3 years! All of my friends knew this and all of his too. I loved him as well, but of course, I waited for him to approach me. He NEVER DID ANYTHING! He could only muster up the courage to talk to me, and sometimes sit really, really close to me. I remember this one time, when we were sitting closely , he told me he could actually hear his heart beating in his ears, so he gave me his hand so I could feel it to. We just kind of 'teased' each other like that. We were more shy then since we were younger.

My point is, regardless of what he felt, he never did anything, and I did my waiting,so after 2 years of waiting I gave up, and even started to resent him for being a jerk and a coward for not doing anything, so I'm pretty sure that's why this girl is angry with you now as well.

Now.what can you do? Just tell her you've been kind of strange, and you miss her very much, and all you really want is for her to admit she missed you too. Then you can start rebuilding your relationship, and, perhaps, with time, she'll be ready again for you to ask her out.

(although.I would never again like to wait for a guy I already waited for that long.I guess it depends on what kind of a person she is, and how much you really meant (mean) to her.)




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Heather2008 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
sometimes. when a girl waits so long for the guy to speak up they just give up. have you told her that you miss hanging out and talking to her?
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