HI i love A man who is 47 and I am 23 but I don't care what people think about me because I loved him I will love him more then this fake world. We been together from last 3 years and I start smoking between these years and I start lying to him, hiding from him so I can smoke. but he never like it because he said its not good for me and he don't want me to do that . he really love and care about me a lot but I am stupid just for smoking I start arguing with him and start saying that you are liar you got gal friend . just without any reason . now when he is not with me I feel alone and I can't think about anything I always cry and think about him . all those days we spent together.! I LOVE HIM We still seeing each other but he don't wanna say nothing to me . I wanna be his wife and I wanna walk with him in my life. I miss him and I wanna be with him forever without him I don't wanna do anything or I never be with anybody because "love happen once rest is just life" can you guys help me . We love each other a lot and I know he wanna be with me too but he just don't wanna say it because of me . He always wanna see me happy but he don't know that I am nothing without him if he is with me I feel more comfortale . and I already quit smoking, drinking . Help me If I can't be with him then I just wait for him forever.
Update: HE thinks that I am 23 and he is 47 its huge age difference but we love each other a lot but he is also afraid ,., I got my future .!? he thinks people goanna say %&%$&^ to me but I don't care because without him I am nothing doesn't matter whatHAPPEN
A month ago
The only way you can not make that an issue is prove it everyday by putting him first, and brushing off all that negativity from the outside. You have to show and prove that you are willing to defend this relationship to the death. Action from within builds the confidence of others.
He's hurt because of what you accused him of. That in it of itself is a trust issue. Not only does he have to know that he can trust you, but he has to know that you trust him. That's the only way a relationship can be successful.
You have to tell him that you trust him no matter what. You have to tell him you are sorry for accusing him of cheating, and tell him you love him and that you only want him and you will do anything to be with him. Don't be afraid to beg and plead on your knees.
just go straight up to him and say that you love him I'm sorry that I've done many bad things yada yada yada and that I really want to be with you I can change and some other stuff just try to encourage him to start talking to you again
First of all thank you a lot for your suggestion But sir/madam he is not like that anymore..... I can share everything with me bad and good but when it comes to say all that it scare me ...... because I don't wanna loose him as friend if I can't be with him as his wiffy ... He is really nice and sweet. Its all my fault Can you tell me what I do for him so I can prove that I want him nobody esle in my life .... because I have met lot of peoples but I never felt the way I feel for him .... - A month ago
If that is what you want honestly then you should talk to him about it. Tell him what's going on. Trust is an essential piece in a relationship, without the relationship cannot grow. Best of luck to you!
When you're in a relationship or pursuing one, how often do you lie? personally I never do because I think the other person deserves more than that...
View Answers
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would wear nice clothes nothing like work clothes. I would pick her up at her house at the time we agreed on. We would then go to a nice restaurant to have a nice dinner. Then we would go walking through the park or go to a nice place to sit and talk to get to know each other better. Then after the date was over I would take her home and not get a kiss unless we both agreed on it.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Whatever it is that she wanted to know. I'm not a shy person. If there's something she wanted to know but wouldn't ask and I picked up on it then I would just tell her everything about me that there is to know.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: A month ago
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
