ok I know that all relationships are complex. but here's what's going on with us.we have been dating about 4 months now. and it seems like every other month we get into a fight bout something that was said by the other person then we spend the majority of the day trying to bicker about it. until it is figured out . even though it ruins a whole beautiful day. other than that we are so cool . we even finish each others sentences.etc. the only other thing is just that he doesn't get off unless he jerks off. but practice makes perfect on that one .its not area of stress for me at least. I just don't get it.why do we suddenly lash out at each other for no reason except just that something was said wrong.?
Update: mostly the arguments are about what was misunderstood in a text message and well then when its taken wrong he doesn't say hey I got this from you like I would do. he straight up starts ignoring. then its bitter build up from there.
3 months ago
So every other month you guys get into a fight about something the other person said? So who initiates these fights? Are there a theme to these fights; it's always about a certain thing? Sounds like the problem is you guys are holding on things each other have said and not forgiving each other. I think it will be important to take some time to think about how you contribute to this and then talk it over with your partner.
its perfectly normal I would say, I have spoke to a lot of people about this as me and my boyfriend argue quiet a lot of the silliest of things. Its normal. Everyone argues over silly things after a while, its like being brother and sister in a way. you become so close, that you do end up arguing about little things that annoy you, its also good for the relationship if it doesn't get too out of hand.
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