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Should I go for her?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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I have liked this girl since I was 13. We have gone out to the cinema and beach a couple of times alone, but it never turned into anything. Through a friend, who is also a really close friend of hers, I have been told that she always feels really awkward around me. I also found out, that she has never had a boyfriend before. Now I am 16. We are really close friends, but every time I see her, she just seems as more than just a friend. Often, she flirts with me a lot, for example when we were sitting in the park talking yesterday, she is always playing with my hands and got really close.
On one side, I don't want to ruin our friendship, but on the other, I have liked her for 3 years and I can't stop thinking about her. Should I stop thinking of her like that and move on from it?

Update: Or should I ask her out or something?    4 months ago

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lenovo (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Personally I would go out with her! Meet up with her again and tell her how you feel. with a kiss if you can hehe. Be so cute. I wish you all the luck!
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Bluerose (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
You should tell her. Try to bring it casually though, but make sure she know you are serious and that your friendship is important to you. She maybe feeling the same she just wants to be asked by you. The Hardest part of all this is find when to tell her and how, choose a place where you have both are at ease, like the beach. It important that you don't feel pressured or like you are pressuring her.
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Question Asker I completely agree with this. But last time I did, she came up with something like 'I don't like knowing who likes me' And I was like wtf does that mean. Like not out loud, but I was thinking it. And for ages it was really awkward between us, from then on I sort of stayed away from that zone. I just don't want it to end up that way again. - 4 months ago

sanam
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sanam (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Sure, ask her out!
you obviously have some feelings for her and you both won't know how you feel unless you try it out!
just don't come on to strong and things should be fine!
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girls101 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Ask her out don't be shy
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alpinestars-2002795 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Well, that's up to you? honestly. Only you can decide what you wanna do, you know her and how you feel about her. Although, remember that she has the same decision making going on. Girls often get freaked out by a guy that is their "FRIEND" asking them out they call it, "Creepy" "Weird" "OMG he's like a brother to me I couldn't do that!" Things of this nature are said, behind your back.

Your best off, if you wanted this girl to not be her "FRIEND" and be her B/F. There are lines there. For some reason, women don't understand that us "MALES" like to get to know a women before we show interest such as going out with them. Not to say some don't date their guy "FRIENDS" it does happen. Although most, won't date a friend. U'll just get the famous, "Well so and so, I really don't wanna ruin our friendship" line. That's her telling you, you are in my friends bag of people I can come and Gripe, piss and moan to, and you'll make me feel all better, but when it comes to returning the favor OWEE or YUK, or your my friend. That's what my boyfriend is for is what she is thinking. Not realizing ever what she has right in front of her. Only she can do that. You can help by changing your way of going about things some, to show her you want her as a g/f, I'm not a rocket scientist at that. I haven't totally figured that part out just yet, how to go about the rest I'm getting better at it somewhat, although am still learning as well.

So ya you can try and ask her out but I don't recommend it right away, let her long for you, don't be around her 24/7 let her realize damn I miss him! Let her call you, see how much she cares, test her. Also show her in your actions you want more than just friends. You'll figure out little ways to do that, don't try to kiss her the first time you do meet up take your time, be patient and let what is going to happen happen the best words I can give here is go with the flow, watch her body language ESPECIALLY her eyes! That's huge. You can often tell a lot from eyes. Here's some things to look for, HOW is she looking at you? Is it a wanting look? Is it a deer caught in headlights I'm madly in love with you look? Body language tells alot.


Wish I could help more, I gave you all the information I know that might help. I bet though that a female on here could fill in the part that I don't even still know which is How to stop her from being your friend and get her to be your g/f. there are books out there, although very skeptical about them, I'd rather hear that answer from a female that was valid, honest, and reputable on this forum.


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Question Asker Wow you really took some time on that. Cheers. I am just totally about what she really feels about me. She sort of sends completely mixed signs like flirting one minute, and the next I am just there as a friend to casually talk to. - 4 months ago
Question Asker Totally confused* - 4 months ago
Answerer Ya that's what she wants. She wants you to be confused, what easier way is there to control you than to keep you confused by sending mixed signals. - 4 months ago
Answerer By keep sending you mixed signals she keeps you on, hook, line and sinker in case whatever she is currently up to doesn't work out. Then she's got you waiting as your doing now. Basically your her number 2. Not her number 1 and personally you deserve better than to be treated that way every guy out there does. I'm fed up with girls treating us like garbage I'm seeing this tactic used now by women day in and day out, that can't get the one guy they want, but don't wana be lonely "NOT RIGHT!" - 4 months ago
 
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