Does he feel bad?

Ever heard the expression "Fool me once, shame on you.fool me twice, shame on me"? Once it happens twice or more than his sorry's aren't very legitimate by this point because if he truly was sorry than he wouldn't do it again right? Especially if he knows it upsets or hurts you. No, this guy isn't putting much effort into being considerate enough to your feelings by sticking to plans with you,so obviously he isn't very apprehensive about wanting to hang out at the current moment and also isn't very reliable either.

I am not sure if he feels bad or not. Does he call and let you know when he cannot hang out when he told you he could? I think there's always time to make a call even if you can only talk for awhile. This is my opinion.

Well we do have other things that come up just like you. Always remember we have things to do as well. Never assume, that we are able to drop every second to hangout/reply. We are busy creatures, the things we do/can do to help others, I.E. fixing things etc. Things of that nature, electronics you name it. We often get hung up with others when we might need to call somebody, or someone else. Don't take this offensively as we do it to our own as well. We only have so much time.


Also, this probably isn't the case or he wouldn't truly appologize. Although, some guys don't have the heart to let a girl down easily, but they will just say hey sorry got busy etc, if they don't truly want to hang out with you but don't wana HURT your feelings. Now the first has been happening very common to me and my friend lately, with the job market the way it is we are HARD at work so that we KEEP our jobs. This doesn't mean we love you less. THis doesn't mean we don't care. It just means we are busy just as you are when you go to get your hair done etc. So take it with a grain of salt and if your that concerned just clear up the confusion and say hey I'm just curious, "do you not like me or something?" and if he goes "NO" why would you think that, he is coming off offended just tell him nothing just thought maybe you weren't interested just wanted to clarify so we didn't have a stupid misunderstanding cause I like you, and I haven't Heard from you in a long time. He'll then probably say, "I told you I was busy" Then just tell him "No problem" I understand. He should calm down if he does get upset at this point if not just reassure him it's ok and you care about him and that's why you wanted to know. We like to hear that you care about us! If he says well I just really don't like you like that, just tell him that's cool, all you had to say is you weren't interested shrug ur cute little shoulders and I'd tell him sorry well I gtg bye less you just want him as a friend which is still doable at this point he's then leaving that up to you. He may not even want you as a friend but he'd have to be pretty mad to want that. It's that simple