No matter what I do I can't stop thinking about him. My friends tell me that I need to get over him but I can't he was my first boyfriend and now that he is gone it hurts so much, he told me that he still had feelings for me and that I am beautiful we went out for 2 weeks and that was at the beginning of the school year and I still can't stop thinking about him even though I haven't seen him since school ended. I know that I need to get over him but I can't and there is no way I can think of for us ever to be together again, what should I do?
should I tell him how I feel or do you think that would be weird to him?
I cry myself to sleep almost every night just thinking about him and I can't stop it. feels like I will never meat anyone else like him like my whole world came crashing down when he said that we should just be friends. The fact that just a few weeks ago he asked me if I wanted to try and make a relationship work again,
after that he never mentioned it again, did he change his mind? Did I do something wrong I am only 15 and I feel so lost and alone please somebody help me what should I do?
I don't want to come across as an ass-hole but really it was 2 weeks. How well and attached can you get to know a person in 2 weeks?
Don't lose sleep over some guy. There are plenty of other guys out there and among them are guys who would do anything to be with you. Love is much more fun when both people share the same feelings of attraction.
Just go out with your friends to some dances/parties/raves/youth-socials/bbq's and you'll meet loads of cool guys and forget about this other guy.
it is going to be hard, not getting over your first love is completely normal. but you have to have a lot of confidence in yourself and reassure yourself over and over that he is part of your past and that the future holds a lot of awesome guys that you still haven't met. so get out and meet em! after seeing a lot of different guys you will realize that your ex was just a random person that you have dated in the past. good luck!;*
Getting over a first love sucks. I felt the same way when my first love dumped me. I was 15 too. All I can say it does get easier with time. I know it's not what you want to hear, but there are no magic words that will make it all better.
If you're comfortable enough putting yourself out there you don't have anything to lose by telling him how you feel, but realize you probably don't have anything to gain either.
Hang in there. If you want to message me I'd be happy to offer some moral support.
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