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When a guy says he wants to take it slow... is that a good thing?

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vintagelove10 (Age:Under 18)     When: 2 months ago
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My boyfriend and I have had an on and off relationship. We decided to try it again, but this time he said he wants to take it slow, and build up to something.

is that a good thing? or is he just saying he wants to take it slow to sound like he is really wanting this?
i am confused! please help me!

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CaratacusDwyn (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Normally, that's a line the girl says.
But don't get all suspicious.
Let him have it his way.
Okay, tempting him may speed things up on your side, but give him a chance.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 27 days ago
i had the same question my ex boyfriend said the same thing to me and I didn't know what to think about it either the only difference is he's c-ing some1 else rite now but he don't even think he wants to b wit her anymore he tells me he's been thinking a lot about coming back but that he wanted to takes things slow so we don't mess anything up like b4
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sanam (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
there's nothing to be confused about!
if he wants to take it slow then it shows that he has respect for you and that its not just another fling!

taking things one step at a time is a great idea especially since the on and off relationship and it will give you two the chance to really got to know each other and build a strong relationship that might last!
best of luck!
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Theshyone (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Why would he try to sound like he really wants to. Maybe he really does want to work things out and taking one step at a time is a good idea. I wouldn't think to much of it. Good luck.
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