I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago because we were fighting alot. A week later he starts texting me/calling me again telling me he misses me and wants to try to work things out. This has been going on for around 3 weeks now. He has text or called me every day and tells me he misses me and wants more. We both had our family vacations on different weeks and he said he had tried to get off to come to mine, but couldn't. Then he invited me to his, but then the next day told me he wasn't getting along with his mom and it wasn't a good idea for me to come up there. This was 5 days ago and I haven't heard anything from him since. We didn't end on bad terms we weren't fighting and just the day before he was telling me how much he missed me. Should I just leave him alone or contact him? I don't understand the mixed signals!
If you want him back, just contact him. It doesn't hurt to do so. As you said you didn't end in bad terms, so just contact him just to check how he is doing. I am sure you are concerned for example about how he is doing and how he is doing with his mom now. If you want plausible deniability just in case you change your mind, then just talk to him as you would to your brother or male friends and just call as a concerned friend, which I am sure you are anyhow.
I hate to be the one who does this, but I don't agree.
I think this guy had some other relationship he started up, and he probably met the person at the end of your relationship. It was a "grass is greener" situation, and as it turns out, it sucked.
I presume his not calling has something to do with one of them trying to work it out, seeing as he was so hard pressed to get back together, she's trying to win him back. He's listening because even though he knows it was a better relationship with you, he doesn't want to lose face, as I believe he introduced this gal to friends or even some family members, and it would look like a failure to him, so even though he's ready, or says he is, he doesn't want to throw in the towel.
I say forget him, if he was willing to throw away your relationship on what I would call speculation, then imagine what will happen when something really serious comes up? How much support are you going to get then.
You're better off deleting him from your mind and finding a guy who has honor.
Call him and have him explain what's going on from the last time he contact you. He been calling/texting you maybe because he regret not having you around him anymore. A lot of guys that cherish a relationship usually regret after the break up. But find out what's really going on in that head of his before you start taking any action.
Well first what were you guys fighting about and was it like serious fights or just little things? I think it depends on how you feel. Do YOU miss him and maybe give him a chance and just hear him out. Tell him if the fighting doesn't stop if you were to give him another chance then you may wanna leave him again
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