Ok so I dated this girl for three weeks during the spring and when the semester was ending I wanted to move the relationship forward and I think she got scared off.
i saw her at a mutual friends 4th of july party and it definitely seemed like she was trying to get on my good side. We spent most of our time conversing with each other and she said we needed to hang out more. She invited me to her friends party the night after. I went. it was lame, but I pretended like I was enjoying myself for whatever reason.
One of our mutual friends told me that she is having a party this weekend and that he was most likely going.
Its kind of weird that she didn't mention it to me cause we were pretty civil and kind to each other over the weekend.
When we were dating we would text all the time and chat on the phone, but that basically stopped once we stopped seeing each other. We saw each other once before during the summer and it seemed like she was genuinely happy to see me. We had an ok time with a couple other mutual friends. After that I wanted to get together and she said yeah and never got back to me.
She plays games and she plays hard to get, but its almost as if its all behind my back. When were together its completely different. I'm don't act the same way as when we were dating, but more laid back instead of sarcastic and outgoing I guess.
I don't kno what to do. I don't kno if I should text her and just say hey whazzup or what. I mean I kno that's she's having a party, is it weird if I ask her what her weekend plans are? I guess ill know where she stands based on what she says.
The thing is I don't know if she's doing this to mess with my head, or cause she actually wants to see what I'm made out of.
ok. you two stopped dating before the summer started, then you saw each other once over the summer. it's really hard to tell if she's even interested. if she stopped talking to you once you two broke it off, she's probably not interested. if you want to text her and ask her what her weekend plans are (to see if she lies to avoid you), go for it. honestly, when she said 'yeah, we should get together again' and didn't call you? she was done with it. I know that sounds harsh, but it's probably true. say, after you two stopped talking and she WAS interested and you hadn't contacted her, my guess is she would provoke your attention. if she liked you, she probably would have contacted you to keep things going. but, according to what you said, she didn't. my best advice would be to just drop it. there are plenty of other girls out there that will want to be with you and I wouldn't get hung up on this one.
Go to the party, have a good time and feel each other out. If she's not into you, talk to other girls as a party is a social event and great place for meeting new people.
If things go well, invite her out. if not then just keep cool and move on.
If you go at it with the mindset of asking her out, you're setting yourself up to come off as desperate which interns leads you masturbating that night.
Ok this sounds really lame, but when in non night life environments I'm more shy about meeting people. Im a lifeguard at a pool over the summer and...
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