my boyfriend said he's going through this depression phase and if I don't want to be with him and I can't deal with it then break up with him what should I tell him? because I want to be behind him about all the way but I really don't want him on the pills ):
Here is where your relationship is really tested. Its only a test. Let him know how you feel. There is a way to get him help, and you have to be the one to save him. Where would he be with out you? He needs you now more than ever. Definitely don't walk out on him. You have to make him see there is a future ahead, and what ever is going on right now is only temporary. Troubles don't last all ways. I don't know if you believe in God, but God put you in his life for this situation. Now just very may be your defining moment. It maybe why you were created. The least you own him, because of the your respect for him, is effort. I am praying for you! Good Luck & Let God!
Yes I know its just so hard because he says I'm the only reason he hasn't killed him self I don't think his life is that hard we are only 16 and I don't know but yeah I told him I wasnt going to walk out on him over that and awww yeah I believe in god and I know!
Please get him help... For one, he should not put the burden of his life on you (re: he has not killed him self because of you) and he really needs to get to the bottom of his issues. I hate to say this but at 16 life is just starting to blossom and with the good days there will also be a lot of overcast days so he needs help to get past them... and while I am not big on advocating that people take pills he may actually have a chemical imbalance which is causing his depression. - 4 months ago
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I know he needs help that's why his parents are going to put him on pills I'm just scared what the side effects are going to be you know?i just don't know what to do with him.
i mean yeah we are only sixteen what can I do for him I just need help telling him I'm here for him and I wouldn't want to lose him. - 4 months ago
okay brake it too him gently tell him how you feel and then tell him that you still care about him and want to stay friends. tell him your there for him whenever he needs you. good luck x
you shouldn't discourage him from taking depression medication if he needs it. he obviously cares about you and what you say is important to him, so don't try to stop him from taking medication that will help him.
Im not I just don't want him to end up having to live off them and I know he cares about me he does a lot and I care about him and I know - 4 months ago
ok, I think if he has to take depression pills you should let him. there is a chemical unbalance in his body that makes him depressed all the time, and some people who don't get help end up usually suicidal (you probably don't want to hear that but its true) and if pills help him out of depression I say try it. =[
I know I should let him he wants too and so does his mom we are only 16 and I really love him this is what he sent me on text message:i honestly love you more than anything I've never loved someone so much and cared about them I can never get you out of my head you have been my reason for not killing myself because your the only one I'd ever miss. and I'm behind what he wants to do I just don't want him to act weird and have to end up living off those pills and I know! ))): I guess if it helps. - 4 months ago
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