Hes been talking about moving to San Diego, but then also Oregon. Its a big step, to get a new job and new place to live, and I love him, and I guess when that happens I might be following him, (if we are still together). But I've had a friend that got dumped after traveling from Las Vegas to New York, and she dumped him there (poor sap) and was stranded there with just the clothes off his back. what should I do? wait till then?
I think that you will need to make that decision of whether to follow him or not when the time comes. If you have a life where you're at and want to continue doing what you're doing or continue to follow your own path, you need to decide whether you think you can find something that you'd be interested in wherever he will be. Don't forget that even though he is your boyfriend right now, that doesn't mean that the two of you will always follow the same path. You have to choose the path that is right for you, and if that path is with him, then you should go with him. If your path is somewhere else, you need to take whatever that path is. Only you can know that for sure. Good luck! :)
well you can always live together. but as long as you can find a place to live before you move, and secure a job with in the first or second week it should be fine. oregon is a great place and their are quite a few jobs open here in oregon.
one thing you need to make sure of if you do move with him is to secure a job that you can live off of, in case of the worst.
and if you want to move back your parents may help even.
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