okay so. this is a complicated love square.and it seems to work out okay.I know its wrong.so you know . just I'm not sure if I should let it continue how it is? -I'm dating this guy who is saving himself until marriage -his sister is also saving herself and dating a boy -me and the boy who is dating the sister are having sex -the brother and sister know that we talk and are friends but. -so it works out and nobody but us knows at all I know I know I know that its wrong and I love the guy I'm dating and I really like his sister and I just have fun with her boyfriend but by now.I think that they would be hurt more if we told them than if we didn't. we don't have feelings for each other we just need our satisfaction, you know. Anyway.I'm just really confused because things seem so good the way they are even though they are messed up.its strange.
Even though you know it's wrong, and you know, you and this boy have no idea what it's like to be in your boyfriends or his sisters shoes. And you haven't completely convinced me your worried about his feelings.
If all of a sudden your boyfriend said "oh yeah, all that saving myself was a crock of shit. I've actually been screwing girl(s) behind your back, your just an emotional crutch." You would be F*cking pissed and embarrassed for wasting your time.
So stop wasting his.
You weren't his type anyway. He's not yours.
And I honestly think your more scared of what others will think of you rather than hurting his feelings or his sisters. Because if it was about hurting his feelings and if he was right for you, you would of stopped after you realized you didn't want to hurt his feelings. But it's not a game of what they don't know won't hurt them. It's a game of what they don't know can't come back to haunt you. That's why you know it's wrong but keep doing it.
And you have two choices. Act like a responsible adult or like a kid running away from problems.
Ok fine what ever had happened just leave it like that. What if the guy you are dating found you some day even after you get into marriage. Are you ready to take and handle the guilt when he asks you why have you cheated. The same thing might be with his sis. Will they be able to love you after its found out. So at least now stop it before it makes things worse. If your guy is saving himself for you and what is it that you are giving back ?
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