I went out with her for about 1.5 years and we were in love. She cheated on me, I found out, we continued the relationship. I cheated on her once, and told her the next day. We broke up for no real reason, and I initiated it. At this point she revealed to me she cheated on me several times, only one that I knew about. She said that she cheated on me because it was "an outlet and it came and went depending on how I acted around her" She says that it was making out, and nothing below the waist. 6 months later. She is still in love with me, and I still have feelings for her. I want to get back with her, but I am very unsure of how it will turn out.
It will work out, only if you two can seriously forgive each other, and get over the past. You can't be with her, if in your head you are constantly thinking, and worrying she will cheat on you AGAIN. If you two still bring it up, during fights, or whatever, it won't work out. Because you will still be living in the past relationship. Both of you hurt each other, and did regretful things. All you/she has to do is totally forgive and erase the past. If you both agree to start over, and treat this relationship as a new one, like getting to know each other again, etc. then give it a shot :) If you/she knows that the past will always come up. and it will haunt the relationship, then give it more time.
I think getting back together with someone in these type of circumstances only works if each person has undergone some serious, independent change. Have you each undergone this type of change? If you haven't, I think your relationship will be pretty much the same the same this time around, and I wouldn't recommend getting back together.
life is about taking risks honestly everyone is going to say, don't get back with her. She's gonna hurt you worst than she did and whatever but you can't help the one you love maybe you guys could make it work maybe things will get worst. its all about risks, and growing and seeing what fits. you have to reach the point where enough is enough. its you're decision and noone can judge you.
You see, cheating's a really odd subject. You can cheat with someone but still be totally in love with whomever it is you love. It's all about the hurt. If it really hurts, then, it's unhealthy.
I would recommend trying to be more open with each other emotionally if you get back together, if that makes sense. Just kind of learn to read each other better.
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