I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years and we have and children, I brought up the subject about us getting married (3 years ago)and he says we can do that. but he never got a ring or even asked me to marry him.
Do you know how much a wedding COSTS? I would prefer to live in sin than have to work 3 jobs for the next 7 years for the most expensive PARTY of my life! for some reason women have a need to spend $3000 for a dress she will only wear once in her life! I been wearing the same sneakers for the past YEAR.
I would put you off too of I had to pay for the wedding! its not commitment to a wife that scares men, its commitment to the CREDITORS we fear!
Weddings are different prices depends where you are and where your having it, We both have already looked into bout 2years ago, its only $2500 that includes everything except for the wedding dress. and my b/f's parents said that they would pay for everything. but the only thing we had to buy was the dress. and trust me I wouldn't spend $3000 on a dress for only one time. I have a family member how works at bridal shop and I could get a dress for bout $700 - $1000. - 4 months ago
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(Age:25 to 29)
When: 4 months ago
maybe he's married to someone else already and just hasn't told you about it yet
Wop! There is a lot of reasons why he is playing the field. He made a commitment to you and the kids. Maybe he doesn't believe that you need a piece of paper for this. Talk to him and find out his view points of marriage. Are they the same? If you really want to be married(for whatever reason)you need to be with a partner that shares similar interest. How you two got together without discussing this and having kids I don't really understand. I was a single mom and it was very hard. The babies daddy was the love of my life, but we couldn't work it out for other reasons. Now she has two babies of her own, again her dad is still not involved. Anyway, why should he pursue this any further? You brought that technicality up, not him. He is find with your relationship. Really, just talk to him. If you can't work it out, make sure the kids are covered. Good Luck!
I hear ya gurl.it's like the saying goes "why pay for the milk when you can get the whole cow for free" Some men are just absolutely not going to get married until they get ready. But one thing is for sure, if you let him continue to just be your boyfriend he will.but also you don't want him to marry you, and then things go sour because he did it out of obligation or pressure from you. I don't know about you, but I want that someone who is going to marry me be just as excited about it as I am. You want to go into a marriage with both people ready to participate and do whatever it takes to make the union work and mostly LAST. 50% of marriages end in divorce.
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