guys check me out all the time but when one wants to come over I ignore him because I'm afraid of being in a relationship I'm afraid that the guy will get too attached and won't want to ease up I don't know what to do it's keeping me from having a boyfriend what do I do?
It is very painful to be ignored, especially if you like the person ignoring you. Why are you afraid of attachment? If you are afraid of attachment you should remain single all your life, because having a boyfriend means to be attched to that person if not much more.
I guess I'm afraid not really of being with someone but being hurt like putting my faith in someone and having them hurt me I don't know my mom has had really bad experiences with men and I guess I'm afraid to go through what she went through.I do really like this guy and I know he likes me but I kind of ignore him because I'm afraid he may have a girlfriend or only wants one thing from me. - A month ago
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You don't have to ignore him, talk to him, be friends and see where it leads to. But I've got the feeling it's more complicated than that, isn't it? - A month ago
If you ignore a guy, he is going to think you are not interested in him. Not all guys that look at you are going to want a relationship that is serious. I'm guessing you are young and maybe haven't had a boyfriend before. I have gone through the same thing of being nervous around guys but it doesn't hurt to be friends with a guy adn then maybe eventually get into a relationship, if you do get serious with a guy just tell him how you feel and you don't want to be to attached. Most guys don't get to attached until it comes to later in life into marriage and things like that. Young guys don't get attached that quickly because they don't really know what they want in there lives yet.
If you are constantly afraid but you do want a boyfriend then you have to overcome that fear. If you are to shy a guy might turn away thinking that you are not interested. So you are better off just forgetting about the attachment and work on a relationship and then worrying about what happens after. And trust me if you never want to get into a relationship because of that then you will never get a boyfriend because you'll keep them all away from coming to you. So start opening up more.
Me and this guy really like each other. We go out to places and we have sex, and there is a good connection. But he is afraid of commitment and I...
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