ok so there is this guy who I've meet a couple of times , because of my friend , and he's 2 years older than me .anyways , after the second time I meet him , he told my friend that he really like me , and after that nothing really happened , well a few days later I was hanging out with my friend , and we saw him with his friend.he kept on telling my friend to leave , but we stayed , and thy left , after that I was TOO high , and we meet with them.we kept on cuddling , and hugging , and he kissed me a couple of times , and gave me a few hickies , and I ended up sleeping over at is house , because I was TOO high to walk home.nothing happened , but we slept on the same bed , and cuddled all night.the next morning I went home , he told me he'll call me or come to my house , BUT I HAVENT HEARD OF HIM IN A WEEK , AND I FEEL USED , AND FEEL CRAPPY , SO DOES HE REALLY LIKED ME AND DOES NOT HAVE TIME TO CALL ME BACK? OR DID HE JUST USE ME?OR JUST SOMETHING HAPPENED TO HIM?
It is good to meet a guy but when you don't know him that well it is bad to sleep over his house. If you are high it is probably not a good idea to hang out with a guy that you are trying to make an impression on. It's ok if you kissed and cuddled and such but if you are sleeping over a guys house that you barely know, and in the same bed, it may be a turn off to him., and he might think you are like this with a lot of guys. I have done the same thing and it didn't work out for me, I made a fool of myself. Sometimes when girls are high, guys just use them because they know the girls aren't thinking straight. It says your 25 to 29, shouldn't you be driving instead of walking? I mean I don't know your situation but it would just make more sense to drive or have someoen pick you up and bring you home. When you do things like this is makes you in some cases not really girlfriend material. And sleep on the same bed with a guy you don't know isn't the right thing to do, he might think you are like that with all men and might not want to get into a relationship with you.
It's normal to feel used and crappy if a guy doesn't call you back after that type of situation. Sometimes guys get busy with their own friends, work and such things. He could have thought of it as just a night of fun and when you get that into it with a guy they tend to back off afterwards or at least the guys I've done the same thing that you did with have. He might like you but he doesn't probably know you well enough to know if he truly does. He might have used you or he might have not. If a guy is usually interested he will call back before a week unless something happened. Your best way of going about it is to see if you can have one of your friends call him or his friends and ask him how he is just to make sure everything is ok and if it is call him and talk to him.
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