I don't want to lose her.

honey stop putting up with this I no you love her but make her understand you won't put up with her stuff any more and once she realizes that she will come running back.

You need to sit down and talk to her. Here's what you could do: buy her something she likes(something fairly inexpensive) but something that mean something to her(E.x. flowers, chocolate,etc.) then go to her in person and apologize for blowing up at her and tell her that you need to talk with her. You all it sounds like have some problems in the relationship. My best advice I can give you is to try and work it out. Talk through the problems. Tell her how much it bothers you when she says mean things. If the talking doesn't work, maybe it would be trime to move on; unless you feel like this is your soulmate. Then you need to try REALLY hard to work this out.

well here's the bad news. you already lost her a loooooong time before this. if she doesn't respect you, then its already over. I don't think you love her. you just love the idea of what you want her to mean to you. I'm not trying to be a jerk, but in her eyes your a weak guy. once that happens, there's no going back. so dude, cut your losses bro. - take it as a learner and find a woman who is not insulting. lifes too short to drag to live like this. take charge of your life! - be alpha bro! - j

If she doesn't want to talk at this point, it's best to give it some space. Let her know you're sorry you blew up at her and you want to work this out. In the mean time, think about what happened between her that pushed your buttons and what you can do next time this happens, instead of, blowing up. I think both of you are at faults. Best of luck!

Well, personally, it sounds like she got what she deserved - she said a bunch of mean things to you several times at least, but she didn't expect you to get angry in return? Your anger is just an indication that you were hurt by what she said. She should have expected that. In fact, that is probably exactly what she needed to see - that you aren't going to put up with her crap! Believe it or not, women like it when they know they can't get away with stuff with us. If you let them get away with stuff, they will not have respect for you. So, kudos to you on your anger. However, I would not be the first one to initiate getting back into the relationship. You don't need to apologize to her either, because you did not do anything wrong. Her behavior has consequences, and she needs to see that. If she doesn't, she will keep up her behavior and also lose respect for you. In fact, a girl who has respect for you will not even attempt to treat you the way that she has been treating you, so I would say that she may have already lost respect for you. I think you need to take your balls back from her man. Don't let her have control over you. You are the man. You need to take control of the situation. Do not apologize to her! I repeat - do not apologize to her! :) If you do, you will be handing your balls back over to her on a silver platter. You need to tell her that you will not tolerate her behavior or her continuing to say mean things to you and hurt you all the time - even in an argument. This is very childish (tell her this) and immature. She needs to be able to sit down and talk things out with you in an adult fashion. Don't let her get away with this, or else you will continue to show her that you can't stand up to her bullying ways. When she is wrong, you need to call her on it. At any rate, I hope you will take this advice and not give in to her. Don't call her for a few days - or if she does call you, wait a few more days to call her back. Don't show her that you are afraid of losing her because she will play on that. That's probably exactly what she has been doing all this time too because she knows that since you are afraid of losing her, she can do whatever she wants and you will put up with it. That is a sign to her that you are desperate, which makes you weak and pathetic in her eyes. (That is how most chicks are anyway.) So, don't show her any weakness. Give her the idea that if she wants to leave, she can. Play indifferent. If you see her begin to crack, don't give in right away. Make sure her attitude truly changes. Keep up this behavior with her - don't be a wuss. Girls hate wusses. They hate guys they can walk all over. Play it cool - act like you don't need her or need to put up with her bullshit. Ok, that's all for now - I hope you take this advice & good luck!