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Is my boyfriend really not a virgin, but he's just telling me he is?

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srhsassysarah (Age:Under 18)     When: A month ago
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ive been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. And I recently read a survey he had taken about his sex life. (note: he told me when I met him that he was a virgin). In the survey it had a question asking how old he was when he lost his virginity. I was expecting him to say I never lost it, but it went ahead and put 15. So I'm wondering do you think my boyfriend is lieing to me about being a virgin, or is he lieing to the survey. I myself am a virgin, and I was hoping he was too, and we could wait to lose it to each other someday. it's just hard to tell if he is or not now.

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Hercules (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Well, it may be possible he isn't a virgin, and he may have lied to you because he felt you wouldn't want to be with him if he weren't. He probably just wanted to be with you and was afraid you'd dump him if you found out he wasn't a virgin.

If you've been going out for 8 months you two should have a trusting relationship enough so that you can ask him about this. I would ask him for the truth. If he lied for those reasons then he must really like you enough to go to that length.


Try and stay positive.
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Question Asker Thanks that helps. I'm going to try talking to him about it. I just didn't know he was keeping this from me for that long!!! - A month ago
 

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inl0ve (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Have you tried asking him about it? Most likely he's lieing to the survey, but you should deff try talking to him about it.
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saadia (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
talk to him, ask him if he is telling you the truth. maybe he is saying he is a virgin because he doesn't want to loose you. maybe he is a virgin but he is lying in the survey.
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radical (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
Well he has lied either way. and maybe he just felt stupid while taking the survey. you two have been together 8 months. confront him about it. trust him. weather or not you hear what you want to hear. You'll never know the answer so don't just assume. and ask him yourself. that's tough so I don't know what to tell you. I hope I helped.
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Question Asker Thanks! its just sad that I thought he was a virgin this whole entire time we were together, and I was hoping that we could lose it to each other someday, but he had to lie I guess. - A month ago
Answerer Are you sure he lied to you? and not the survey?? - A month ago
Question Asker Ya know that's what's been really confusing me. he either lied to me about being a virgin, or he lied in the survey. but he posted it in a bullieton on myspace. so I could easily read it - A month ago
 
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