I am crazy about this girl that I met a couple of months ago. However, she stated, when I ask her about her ways, that I am just jealous. Here is the scenario: After 1 month, she said that she loves me and that I AM HER SOUL MATE. WOW!!! I don't know whether to believe her or not as I am keeping my guard up right now with her. She is currently and was separated from her husband and is in the middle of the divorce proceedings as we speak. However, she has a child but claims to have not loved the child's dad as he was the one she was married too. However, my gut and instinct keeps telling me that she is just trying to find someone stable and to cling to right now only because she constantly talks about other guys being good looking like her boss and her attorney and guys she meets out in public. Still she claims that I am the one and only for her.
Why doesn't she understand that this gets me frustrated especially when I know what she has said about her past boyfriends and husband, that she would leave them and find someone else that is better for her and suits her life. It seems like she would latch on to anyone just to get attention. I am definitely not like that. Am I jealous like she says or is she going to leave sooner or later when she finds out that I am not everything she hopes for as she says that I am now. She has got me totally out of whack with this. Any comments from women would be appreciated. Thanks!
Well she said she did not love this man yet she married him. Why do you think that is? Okay, maybe she didn't love him but why would she marry a man she didn't love? If you're crazy about her, you need to find out what kind of girl she is before you end up getting hurt. You need to find out if her words are true or if she is just playing with you're mind and heart. If you're jealous, there is nothing wrong with that. It's a natural thing for a man and woman to feel. I hope all goes well for you.
I would be careful here. After only one month of being with you she already "knows" that you are her soul mate. I suppose this ability to instantly know her soul mate is a new gift. Was she not able to tell that her husband was not her soul mate, or was he before, and now he is not?
It sounds like you have feelings for her, but I have found that your gut is typically never wrong. Even when it is not exactly correct, it normally is good about letting you know that there is something very real that you need to pay attention to.
Best advice, if you really care for her and you don't mind dealing with a lot of baggage (trust me, a divorcee with a child has baggage, not to mention her ex always showing up because of the kid), then be sure you know what you are getting yourself into. Also, right now, give her the space that she needs to finish her divorce, and get her head straight (I don't care what she is telling you or herself, with all that she is going through, her emotions are pulling her in a lot of different directions).
If after a little time you two still are clicking, then happy dating. But no matter what, be very careful here.
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