Okay, me & the guy have been dating/going out for about 5 weeks now . we were friends in high school, so we've known each other for 10 years now. He's a great guy . but last night he dropped the bomb on me and told me that his ex sent him a text saying she's 7 weeks pregnant.
Cant really be mad because it was b4 me . but I'm stuck as to what I should do .
He's never been in this situation so he really doesn't know how it's going to play out .
He says that there is a high chance that they won't be together and that he really really likes me and wants to work it out but he's leaving it up to me and whatever decision I make he understands.
What do you think I should do?
Besides that he is great, my family and friends LOVE him, he's easy to get along with . I really do want to let him go but I'm so torn right now
Dump the boyfriend and eventually you'll find somebody else. Anyway, you've been dating for 5 weeks, is not like you've been dating for 5 years. Just because friends and family love him doesn't mean you're going to marry him and live forever happily. And as I always say, follow your own intuition. YOu already said you want to let him go, so let him go. You already know what to do so listen to that little voice of yours that is telling you to let him go. The more excuses you make to fight that voice, the more torn you will be. Good luck.
You need to be the grown up and realize stuff happens in life. This was a mistake he made before he got with you. So are you going to ruin the chance of whatever you two might have because of something that happened in his past? Yes, if she truly is pregnant he's going to have a new role but, are you going to just end it because you're that upset over it? That almost sounds a tad selfish. I realize that's a lot to take in but, shit happens.
Not an easy situation.first off he needs to determine his paternity (never assume) if she is keeping the baby. Then he needs to think about what he would like to do. I don't believe in people staying together for the sake of a child if they aren't wanting to be together. I hope they can stay civil together. Dating a guy with a kid is never easy but it can be done. Talk to him about it some more and find out what he thinks he should do. He needs to talk to his ex as well and find out what she wants to do.
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