Before you read the info here, PLEASE read this: link I know that it's long but it gives a LOT of important background info.
So continuing where that last post left off, I msg'd him and said that I'd be coming into the area on Tuesday and to let me know if he was free that day to hang, and if not, to let me know so I could make other plans. he said that as far as he knew, he was free on Tues. So I told him that id txt him that morning and see what was happening, and he msg'd me back saying that even tho I was quiet, he enjoyed hanging out w/me but I should try not to be so shy next time. so I thought everything was cool
now things get ridiculous. I was soo exhausted the night before and overslept :( I woke up in the afternoon, and I couldn't go anymore. so the right thing to do would be to call (not text) and apologize profusely. so I did, but he was at work so I couldn't really talk, and had to call him back later. he said that it was ok, it happens and then I told him to pick another time since I obvs can't pick a good time. He said Wed evening.
So last time we tried to meet up, we txted back and forth and it took foreverrrr and was annoying, so I decided to call. it was around 9:45am and I woke him up :( I normally wouldn't be up at 9am either, so I quickly apologized and said id call back later. so I call back at 11am ish because that's a reasonable time, but he didn't pick up and I left a msg on his voicemail (later I saw that he was online at that exact time so he could've picked up! he wasnt working or w/e).
so I was busy for a while and then I didn't wanna look like a desperate loser, calling him for the 3rd time so I txted and asked if he was up because I wanted to know what plans were for the evening. he replied 'i dunno, I have a lesson at 3 and 4:30, should be out at 5:30 6ish'. This is where I made a hugeee mistake and said that time doesn't really matter because I'm most likely staying the night(@ a friends place) and just let me know when his lessons are done.
So he txts me at 7:42(!) and says that he's done with lessons but he's going to be filming til 9:30. I'm boiling mad at this point, but I'm trying to keep calm because I bailed on him so its fair for him to bail on me. my plans to stay at my friends place fell thru for an unrelated reason and I was just so upset about everything that I decided to go home.
at 9:48(again!) he txts me just a few minutes after my train leaves and asks what's up. me: I'm on the train going home. him: aw I thought you were staying tonight me: yeah that didn't work out. him I'm sorry that we didn't get to hang out, ill make it up to you babe
and today, he txted me 2hrs ago saying that he was really sorry again. IDK what to do. is this a sign that we really aren't meant to be together? have I been "punk'd"? I know I was wrong for oversleeping but still. I want to believe that for once someone that I like actually likes me back=(
I don't want to be such a cliche , it similar to my story , I met a girl online and we go out once and I try to call her and left her a voicemail , she didn't call back but she send me a txts seeing she want to go out again , then I told her about an idea to go out and she can bring her daughter with her instead leaving her back home with her mom , she didn't say anything oh I almost forget the first time when we go out together she bring one of her girlfriend , I didn't asked her why because I respect that I mean its the first time with a total stranger I was little bit shy , we have dinner and then we catch a movie , I want to go out with her again but I don't want be annoying or pushing myself on her ,
It sounds like you are over thinking things. You both sound like you have really complicated and jam-packed schedules and that means you have to work harder to find time to get together. he seems like he likes you, you guys just need to find a way to avoid so many scheduling conflicts. You might want to plan something definite, not just make things up at the last minute because then you both understand that you will be meeting at said time at said place. you can keep your commitments, so why not make spending time with him a commitment?
I would love to have a definite plan. I really hate calling him in the morning/day not knowing what's happening, and how to plan my time, how much money to budget. but I keep asking him what the plan is and he's always 'idk'. isn't the guy supposed to be the one that plans these things?! I mean, yeah I could, but if I plan everything then how do I know if he's interested or just feels sorry for me? I have never been in a relationship before and I have the worst intuition ever. - More than a year ago
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So if he doesn't do the typical guy things like planning, then I have no clue where I stand and basically the only way I can tell is coming on this site and asking ppl.
what should I do then? he just won't plan anything... - More than a year ago
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And I mentioned this issue in the link that I posted his work schedule is always changing. so how could we work around that? - More than a year ago
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It is typical for the guy to plan these things, however if you want him you're gonna have to pick up that responsibility this time. He seems to be interested in you, so stop worrying and just get on with it! Only you and him can work around his schedule. - More than a year ago
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