I read about a study that said men and women both look for looks (because of "survival of the fittest"), then money (because they want to know someone can provide for them).
Personally, if it's between looks and money, looks are more important to me; I was taught to be independent and provide for myself before I rely upon anyone else. It's more important that a guy has goals than money.
Well, first impressions are always based on looks - bad or good. Then you get to know the person, and for me it really doesn't matter how much money he has, as long as he can take care of himself financially. And I actually dislike it when people try to buy me or my affection. In the end it's the personality... with the initial spark based on looks.
A-R-Norman
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
It depends on the girl. I am one of those rare types who likes substance over style, and have always been put off by guys who either tried to impress me with wealth, or thought I should pass out cause he was good looking. The man I married is attractive, but far shorter than me standing at five one--but I love the man not his money or height--he is a decent person and a wonderful father and son, so he was a nice guy and I adore him--don't be fooled--NICE GUYS GET LAID TOO--they just have to look for a mature woman who has grown past all the crap...
southernbelle
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
I've dated millionaires, I've dated average people. But here's my deal...humor, wit, a great listener, and looks are last, but there has to be some type of chemistry. Looks come and go honey.
angelinlove
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
My anwer to your qestion is I would like a guy's face more than what's in his wallet but I don't really care if a guy has either. If I was in a relationship he would have to respect me, treat me well and give me the proper attention.
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