I have the most amazing guy friend ever, we've been best friends for about a year, but it seems like forever. Lately, like halfway into our friendship, he's been acting weird. Everyone else says its obvious that he likes me, but I don't see him in that way, until today. I felt this weird feeling towards him, sorta like a crush. I don't want this crush to grow, and I don't want to like him like that. What should I do? Because I really don't want to avoid him.
Update: well school started a couple of months ago. I've noticed that we're not so close anymore. I mean we're still pretty close, but he likes to hang out with his guys friends more. I guess that's okay. but because of that, I am so over him.
A month ago
First we need to know why you don't want those feelings to grow. By knowing this it makes it easier to give advice. Besides, if you do have feelings for this guy, avoiding him is only going to make it worse.
Love or liking or crushes are something we can't really suppress. We may ignore it, but it'll always come back to us. So confront it, or let it haunt you, is really the only option I've ever seen.
Well I will tell you right now falling for your best guy friend could be the worse thing ever or the best thing because if it works out you to could be closer than ever and you woulknow he likes you for u
As you know already, we cannot control what we feel. if you don't want these feelings for him to grow, you may have to leave him. You can't really switch something like that off. Are you sure that likeing him is a bad thing? if he likes you and you are falling for him, it sounds like a win win to me. That's just my thoughts though.
well obviously you 2 already have a lot of chemistry going on because yall are bff! I say mayb get a friend 2 casually bring you up in a convo with ur bff and see wut happens! it sounds like its meant 2 b!
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