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Am I always going to be single?

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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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i know this is a stupid kinda not so good question but I'm actually so tired of been single,i loved it for ages but now its like I want someone I really like to like me enough to want to be with me.all my friends get guys so easy but for me its never easy or straight forward!its not a common thing for me to have a boyfriend if anything its quiet rare.i just don't understand what is so wrong with me that nobody ever likes me in that way or wants to be with me! can anyone tell me what could be some reasons to why I'm always single? and will I always be?

Update: woah 3months on and still very much single    Yesterday

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blue-kev
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blue-kev (Age:30 to 35)      When: Yesterday
Yaaay! Your back!
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Question Asker Ha yup iam - Yesterday

brappp
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brappp (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 days ago
id get wid you lol.
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msgbubba
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msgbubba (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
i agree with everyone your beautyful and smart you realy shouldnt have a problem geting guys if you were in the U.S you would have guys all over you
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Confused614
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Confused614 (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Just like every1 else said your superhot and by the advice I have read you give you are very smart and have a great personality. Not something you can come by every day brains and looks :). I'm sure you have an amazing accent that would make me personally melt to the floor.
I think I want to marry you to!
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jkremis23
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jkremis23 (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
im in the exact same situation. I'm a junior in high school and I've had 1 Girlfriend which was freshman year. I loved being singe for the last half of that year and part or sophomore year but since then, I'm craving a relationship. I fell in love once since then, but we decided not to let that relationship happen for reasons I won't get into here.

point is. I know how you feel about it and I feel the same way =/
but you seem nice and very likable through all the stuff of yours I've read on here (which is a ton lol) so it shouldnt be tough for you to find someone thatll be good for you and last you a long time. good luck Irish-Girl =D
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iamranga
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iamranga (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I think I am in love with you.
Would you consider marrying me?
I'll even learn how to play the guitar.
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Question Asker Lol sure why not - Yesterday

jbone79
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jbone79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Tired of being single, book a flight for America. Guys here love chicks with accents. problem solved. we have nice restaurants here too! good luck on this. kisses- crazy man with the tayto tattoo!
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angryazn88
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angryazn88 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
i know being single is hard but I've been single for 3 yrs! think about it this way, would you rather wait for the guy of your dreams or just take any guy off the street? I would rather wait. think positively! guys like that
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Question Asker I agree totally thanks - 2 months ago
*StillWater* Exactly! Great answer! - 2 months ago

blue-kev
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blue-kev (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
Wow. I never would have guessed that. Cause you have given such great advice on this site. It may be possible that some guys are intimidated by your looks. Because you I think you look atractive. Ok here is my advice why not try talking to guys like you would a friend. This is a win win situation. For one it takes the nurvesness out of the situation and takes the preasure off. Also it alows you to talk about regular stuff like the music at the place you are at or something you like about the guys clothes or sports game on tv. It a more easy going relaxed conversation. I am having the same problem you are I can't find a girlfriend and I have all these realy cool places I know girls would love but I have no girl to take there :( but as far as tequnique I was in New York City the other day at the Hudson bar and I saw 2 realy attractive girls. So I just started a normal friend like conversation. I asked the girls if they had seen wear the balcony section of the bar was. They had no idea cause it was there 1st time at this bar also. We never found the balcny cause it was on a different floor lol. But I got to talk to two realy cool girls just by talking to them as friends. Later that night I went over to Ava pent house lounge in time square. I went up on the roof and I met some girls from Romania. And I am clueless about that stuff but I just asked them what they thought of New York and what was there home town like. Basic stuff. I didn't hook up that night but it was a great way to talk to some new people and takes the edge off. Its weird I would so love to have a girlfriend and just enjoy the city togeather. But if you use that friend technique I think you could start a convo with any guy and guys usualy have no problem with taking it to the next level. If you do this you will have a boyfriend before you know it. Little seacret there are probobly a lot of guys that want to ask you out but are afraid to. Start a convo and watch how quick they smile. And you will have a boyfriend. Now I have to ask you cause I have the same problem. How do I get a girlfriend? Lol
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RoryOfTheDead
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RoryOfTheDead (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
like every other guy has said, you are absolutely gorgeous, trust me I'm trying very hard not to hit on you right now lol
i think everything there is to say has been said now, as I'm about a week too late, but whether you know it or not, you could get any guy you want, just trust your confidence :)
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Question Asker Lol thanks ... :D - 2 months ago

JCvarsityFootball
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JCvarsityFootball (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
dont come as the "IM 2 GOOD 4 U" type of girl.

just b outgoing and talk 2 them. even start a conversation 1st
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Question Asker Lo I'm not too good for anyone and I would never act that way either and I always am out going and I start conversation 1st 95% of the time so that's why I don't understand what's wrong - 3 months ago

temptationfalls
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temptationfalls (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
all I can say is 'DAMN UR HOT" judging from your pictures. you'll find someone. maybe guys are scared because they feel that you're "out of their league" and too hot for them?
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JD-Morris
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JD-Morris (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Had a look at your 3 pics

I'd nearly walk to Dublin If you really look like that :D

I know where your coming from with the everyone seeing you as "just a friend"

The girls I know they just see me as the calm funny one - But I fancy almost every girl I know, and to makes things worse a lot of them know it as well - but there all really beautiful and are all taken so it doesn't matter

I could tell you stories involving nights out with some of thos girls or just trying to ask out girls I'm friends with that would have you laughing for a long while

Ive always lost out on girls I wanted - partly from family circumstances, especially in my teens and now days the amount of effort I put into projects I hope to be making money from

I'm not even picky, apart from really small eyes or a weird nose I'd see the pretty side in any girl

but still I'm always the single one that girls just want to be friends with :(
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Question Asker Guitarist lol really ?? loves it.... ah yeah join the club the club being everybody and ireland only sees me as a friend club!! - 3 months ago
Answerer Yep guitarist :) and a cabinet maker - I'm hoping for the second one to fund the first

hahaha - yeah think I heard about that club :P - 3 months ago
Question Asker Lol mutiltaleneted lol.... yeah I'm the chair person for that club - 3 months ago
Answerer Well as I said - just by looking at those pics you'd definitely be my type of girl :) - 3 months ago
Question Asker Lol thanks !!:D - 3 months ago
Answerer Just a shame your a dub! :D - 3 months ago
Question Asker Ha yea I know el me about it I'm stuck with the ejets in there lacoste tracksuits - 3 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
hmmm I am about a year younger than you, and personally I find you very attractive. If you seen you around the street id try to work up the courage to ask you out. Maybe the problem is your not approachable. A lot of women I found physically attractive always seemed like the carrot on the end of the string and did not seem worth chasing because I usually assumed they had a boyfriend. We live in a time where your fast or last but even now we have exceptions with the people who you would expect to be taken are not because everyone is afraid of being rejected.
long story short its probably not you, it us. Thenless you have an evil personality but since I don't know you I can't comment on that. Have fun!
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