ok what am I going to do like I play around and I think that I get on my girlfriends nerves. like we recently just moved in together and like I think its starting to get to her like we got into to the slowest argument over a bag of candy. just because I was playing with and not letting her choose the pieces that she wanted then I knocked her in her head with the bag now what do I need to do
okay well ur overdoing it, You pretty much don't respect her if you smack her over her head, plus if you did respect her you would stop bulling her after you seem to get on her nervs. So stop being a bully and start being a man
You can be playful without being irritating. And I think sometimes there is a fine line. Things like hitting her in the head with the bag is crossing that line. And stopping her once or twice from picking which pieces would be cute and playful but never letting her get in there to get what she wants is becoming too much. Just tone it down and try not to cross that line. Think about things before you do them. And apologize to her (sincerely) when you do cross the line.
Well I guess I should try its going to be hard to do because its me but I guess I can try - 3 months ago
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Honestly, I know what you mean. I'm that overly playful person too. But when I found someone that I really cared about that really felt it was too much, I taught myself to tone it down for them. It was tough at first especially, but he meant more to me. I'm still me, I just know how to control it for him. - 3 months ago
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Did it actualy make the relationship better - 3 months ago
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Yes. Because he could tell that I was really trying for him, and he really respected that I was working toward something for him. And in turn he started working on things that he did that sometimes bothered me. Neither of us would expect the other to change, but we just want each other to be concsious of the other and respectful. - 3 months ago
Uh.apologize and stop playing around would be a good start. She obviously doesn't think it's funny and I don't imagine you enjoy doing it if it annoys her.
I agree with you but like ok wen we weren't living together we always played around she did the same thing I do but wen we moved in together she changed a lot I never had to worrie about playin so much before now I'm nerves to do it because she gone get mad at me I don know bro I'm clueless - 3 months ago
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It might be because she is more focused on keeping the relationship itself and not playing around as much. You two got a responsability as a couple and that is to live together, so my advice would be to change. Not literally stop being playful, but being smartly playful. - 3 months ago
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That is a good way of looking at it I like that - 3 months ago
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