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He breaks up with me, then says no it's still not over... what do I do?

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ladysooodivine (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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I invited him to a party saturday night. it kinda ended bad because my friend ended up kicking out everyone (except us). my "boyfriend" assumes he and his friends were being judged so he was pretty mad and disappointed about it. we were texting after he left. and he mocks me about "having fun" with the other boys lefts in the party. I said "u know I'm not gonna do anything! why are you so jealous?"

Then he says my friends judged him and his friends and he can't deal with that. he then texts me "We're over -peace I don't like ur attitude".

Oh yea, I cried. I cried big time. I was bawling because he says we were done. it was over. there's nothing I can do, he already broke up with me. he even added "don't ever call me again. I see how it is, I looked at you wrong". I felt so heartbroken.

THEN HE TEXTS ME THE NEXT DAY, saying "sorry about last night babe. we should talk when you wake up."

What?. WHAT?!

He apologized and says he overreacted. He was drunk and he didn't know what he was doing. He still doesn't want us to be over. He just got offended by my friend kicking them out. He says to forget about it, put it behind us, and start all over.

I still don't understand why he's taking it all lightly. I'm the one who got hurt so bad and he's taking it so lightly. As if it's no big deal. He broke up with me! how can I NOT make a big deal out of it?

I like him so much. I didn't want it to end. So we sort of made peace and just forget it. But I can't. it still hurts me. every time I think of calling him, the fact that he told me not to call him again always pops up in my head. so I ask permission first.

I don't know what to do. I need advise please.

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aceyacey (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
If you really like him, then you'll need to forgive him for the mistakes he had done. Otherwise, you'll be very insecured in this relationship.

If you can't let it go at this moment, just take some time off. Think thoroughly. Make peace when you are ready to accept him, and forgive him

Forgetting is not easy.
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