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Why do men like bj's so much?

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(Age:30 to 35) When: Over a year ago

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Stupid question, I'm sure.So why do men (not all) have such an obsession with getting bj's? What is it that drives them crazy?

Update: ANY GUys PleAsE HELP! Over a year ago


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Over a year ago

Well first off, its hard to imagine just how good it feels. Secondly it is really erotic to have it just done to you, I mean just having your girl make you cum, just doing it for you. And it is so sexy to watch you as you do it.

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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Good luck!
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  No apologies, not cruel at all. I guess I have a very important and difficult choice to make. He is flying me out to his hometown for a week and I'm concerned he may have just paid for a plane ticket, but really in his own mind, is paying for a "whore" for the week. We are in a LDR, have been for some time, so it is difficult to pick up on his cues and reactions to such topics, without being in the same room. Out of the heart the mouth speaks.... I think I just answered my own question.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Well it is hard to tell without knowing someone, but it sounds pretty self absorbed to me. Sex should be a sharing of pleasure and he should want you to be pleasured as much as he is. If all he ever wants is a blow job, then what he is doing is masterbating with your mouth. Guys that don't have a sex partner will jerk off all the time. If all he sees you as is a way to jerk off without having to strain his arm then it "means" he is using you. No intent to be cruel here.
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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Well, I'm not sure if that is all he wants, but he talks about it a lot and says he wants it all the time. What might the issue be? He never really talks about my orgasm, except on occasion, and the conversation is usually rather short... Any conclusions? He commented the other day after telling me how smart I was, (after much retorting on my part) "Well Honey,... I want a bj". What does that mean????
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  I consider a BJ a type of sex not a replacement for. In fact your guy should do the same for you some times, just lick you until you orgasm. I love having a woman orgasm in my mouth. If all the guys wants is a bj then maybe there is an issue.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Does getting a bj make sex less important? Is it typically more important to a man than the act of sex itself?
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Over a year ago

They are getting their penis sucked, tongued, and salivad (new word), which is something that doesn't happen anywhere else on a girls body. It's special because for many guys it isn't common. It's all about what guys get more of, if a girl never gave a guy sex but always gave BJs, then the guy would crave sex.

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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Haha, the latter works better
- alteran87
  Over a year ago
  Salivad?? or saliva'd?
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