Im With This Lad , An I Like Him , A lot ! And When Were On Our Own Together He's The Nicest Person Iv Met ,But Wen Were With His Mates He's Horrible Saying Things Like " Shut Up No One Wants To Listen To Wot You've Got To Say " " Fuck Off I'm Talkin Bitch " . His Mates Laugh So I Laugh Along To , But Its Getting To Me Now , But Then We Go On Long Walks An He Says How Sorry He Is For Everything That's He's Sed But Then Does It Again The Next Day , I Don't Know What To Do , Pleeaseee Help !
Fuck him. Seriously, if he's willing to ridiculize you in front of his friends he doesn't deserve you. He is being a dick, an ass and a serious immature piece of shit. Dump him.
First off, don't start every word with a capitol letter, it makes reading your question incredibly difficult.
As for why he does that, he's clearly succumbing to tribe mentality and peer pressure. He cares more about his image around his friends than he does with you. This is why he acts so nicely to you when no one else is around, because there's no one there he needs to impress and he can be himself.
I've had this happen to me but it was with a girl. Her friends treated me terribly, and she joined in, however, when we were alone together, it was like we were boyfriend and girlfriend. These people just need to learn how to be themselves.
He's a loser, to belittle you in front of his friends. It makes him feel like a big man and you shouldn't have to take that crap. He's disrespecful to you and I would hope you think you deserve better. GET RID OF HIM or tell him that you don't like it so stop or leave!
OK! SO THIS GUY IS AN A**HOLE WHEN HE'S AROUND HIS FRIENDS BUT WHEN HE'S WITH You HE'S ANOTHER STORY. SWEET, NICE, ETC. SOUNDS LIKE THIS GUY IS TRYING TO JUST IMPRESS HIS FRIENDS. HE OBVIOUSLY HAS NO RESPECT FOR You WHAT-SO-EVER! HE NEEDS A REALITY CHECK AND You NEED TO NOT HANG OUT WITH THIS GUY WHO PUTS You DOWN IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS, ALSO WHEN You MEET A GUY You WANT TO BE IN GOOD TERMS WITH HIS FRIENDS BUT IF THEY'RE LAUGHING TOO WHY WOULD You WANT TO BE PART OF THIS CROWD IN THE FIRST PLACE? :)
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