Am I too nice of a Boyfriend?

Look, most girls out there are looking for a guy like you. It's true that we need some extra excitement once in a while, so, you should try to make things interesting for her. Other thing, it is true that you can't be completely honest with girls about some things, but sometimes you do need to be So don't lie all the time just to be nice.

I think that you need to spice up things once in while, like doing something really romantic or making her a little bit jealous (don't over do it). And please, make her feel she's with a real man, who will protect her even if death itself approaches.

first off. when girls say they are fat they are just looking for reassurance that they aren't. Some guys are too nice. ( you're one ) girls.tend to get sick of nice guys and want that bad boy mentality. which is SO STUPID. but I don't know. don't pay attention to her 10000% of the time. so she knows not to take advantage of how nice you are. Its a shame you have to play games. but. oh well you gotta do what you gotta do I guess.

Just like your girl isn't the first chick to say, "AM I FAT?" you are not the first 'nice guy'

He must learn to pace himself. I know it can be very irritating to have an insecure girl. Sometimes, you just want to shake the sh!t out of them and say, "GET SOME CONFIDENCE ALL READY!"

He should continue to be that nice guy, but he needs to learn to pace himself. Pick and choose when to give compliments. It's not being mean. He is simply giving his significant other the opportunity to engage him. If he is always doing the nice deeds, then she never has the opportunity to do those things for him.

It's like always calling her to say "Hello". She will never call him first if he always beat her to it.
He isn't being a bad guy and he isn't being mean. He is simply giving his partner the opportunity to be nice to him. He should focus on himself during the time he is waiting. He should do things that will make him happy and that will improve his life.

This isn't playing games. This is merely a way for a person to learn how to balance and control their own life.

Also, only be nice when someone deserves it. People will walk all over you if they hurt you and you continue to be nice to them.

Remember, a nice guy will not be mean, but he does not need to be nice either.

sometimes, nice guys are just nice to the point of being nice no matter what, which is annoying. Nobody is saying they don't like nice people, but sometimes it feels like sucking up, being fake, not having a spine/balls, and being a pushover.

Give her respect, compliment her.Care for her well being. Just don't smother her with kindness. I'm this way at times as well, but I put myself in their situation and I realize how annoying it would be to always have someone doting on me. It's flattering and uplifting in moderation, creepy and clingy seeming without.