Okay there is this guy and he liked me and some random day he tells me that he doesn't like me any more. I love him. And he tells me all of these different reason why. For instance; I just see us as friends, I don't want to ruin our friendship, I don't want to date right now b.c I don't want to get attached to anyone, and that I don't want to put you through what you had to go through last year!
And now he is going out with someone. I put my heart out there. I feel like I'm the only one who got hurt. He said he wanted to be friends but he won't talk to me and I hate it. I want to be with him so bad. I don't know what to do! Should I move on? wait for him? What did I do wrong? I love him a lot!
now he is telling people that the reason why i am mad at him is b.c he told me that he told me he dont like me anymore, but thats not it its b.c he wont talk to me about it and he did all of this "i dont like you" over the computer. i dont get why he wont talk to me but he will tell people what is going on. i cant move on if i have to see him everyday at school.
mrberlin
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
Well I'm with you! I just went through the same thing with a female friend of mine. So I know exactly what you feel.
The sad thing is it's time to move on. It sucks, it hurts, but you gotta leave him behind.
The best way that I have learned to deal with things like this is try to do things to keep myself busy so I don't think about them (whatever that might be), go out with friends, & do stuff to extend my social circle so I can met new people... something.
The bad thing about things like this is to keep hanging onto them. That makes it more painful. The fact that he's with someone right now means that he has moved on & that it's pretty much a done deal. Like I said... the best thing to do is kinda what I said above!
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
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