I like my best friend, he's sweet, funny, and we connect like nobody I've ever met, we understand each other so well and I can tell him anything and he won't judge me. We go together so well and he always puts my needs ahead of his own. I've never had a fight with him because I know how he thinks and he knows how I think and you can't get mad at person when you know how their mind works. I always have fun with him, it doesn't matter if we stay at home and watch movies or go to a party, and I feel safe wherever I am when he's with me.
The problem is, he has a girlfriend, I am also afraid that if he rejects me or the relationship doesn't work out then I've screwed everything up, because I love him as a friend and I think I love him more then that and I don't want to lose him, even if it means I can't be with him because without him in my life, it wouldn't mean anything, I feel like he's my soulmate and losing him would kill me, literally I wouldn't be able to go on living without him there to make everything ok. So what should I do? Should I risk it, or leave it?
Take it slow. He might not be ready to hear that you like him because he has a girlfriend. Just give it time. If your going to tell him then you should break it down to him slowly. You might scare him off and I know you don't want that to happen. See how things go because a friendship is way more important then anything. I have been there. Hope everything gets better and good luck.
I'm a freshman and my best friend recently started dating a junior. It doesn't bother me except that it has sort of changed her! She used to be so...
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