Why doesn't he last during sex?

Hi, premature ejaculation is not caused by over sensitivity in the penis, therefore desensitizing creams/sprays or even circumcision is not the answer. (who would want to have sex and feel nothing anyway :S)
The problem is actually in the brain. The neurotransmitters are firing all wrong because of poisons in the food/water that affect men. They affect women too but in a different way. Ever notice the high percentage of women these days who have breast cancer, cervical cancer or cysts ?

To correct this problem is simple. Firstly, there is a supplement (CHEAP) called Melatonin... buy it, take it at night. It helps with a multitude of problems by helping the body to heal itself at night and also it regulates serotonin which plays a role in ejaculation.
Secondly, there is a herb called Vitex, it decreases prolactin so that increases dopamine (great for eliminating all PMS symptoms in women and also it decreases refractory period in men) so in other words he can go again and again without having to wait very long.
Lastly there is green tea. you can actually drink the tea (I don't recommend this because it's HOT lol I live in the Caribbean so you know I'm not friends with hot drinks) or just take the herbal tablet.

All good advice and all CHEAP supplements available without a prescription.
Also, AVOID artificial ANYTHING (aspartame, etc) they work on a mutated form of amino acids eg. phenylalanine is used to make aspartame and phenylalanine is also a precursor to Dopamine so mess with artificial stuff and your body is gonna take a beating, starting with the smallest appendage :P)

One side note is make sure he doesn't cheat... I had a friend with this problem so I told him what to do. The problem went away, his wife THOROUGHLY thanked me with cookies and baked goods for a month, THEN he started humping up the neighborhood (wife's words)
He literally thought he was God's gift to women and went at it like he could win an award in the Olympics.

Hope this helps... I love herbs and cheap alternatives to solving problems :)

There is something he could do.
1st: Read the "multi-orgasmic man" by mantak chia
2nd: there's another book called "how to make love all night and drive her wild"- author- don't remember off-hand

Basically the secret is thus: He has to squeeze the PC muscle (the same muscle that stops the piss flow) right before, but RIGHT before orgasm.this takes practice, and he may have to try on his own a few times.what happens is, he has an orgasm, but he doesn't ejaculate.
If a man doesn't ejaculate, he can continue indefinately.its great. Orgasm without ejaculation.
Sounds crazy but it works. so he'll have to excercise the PC muscle pretty regularly.it easy to do,
takes about 2 minutes a day.

Does wonders for women too, by the way. Try squeezing your pc muscles during orgasm, and breathing deeply. or squeezing while his in you.rhythmically
Good luck

OK, so he lasts for 5 minutes in round one. What about round two, or even round three if he's up for that? Do it again. The issue is his excitement level is maxed out and it doesn't take too much to put him over the edge. If he is indeed that excited, then going at it again shouldn't be a problem.

Masturbating before having sex will help him last longer because the excitement level will have decreased a bit and there would be a refractory period before getting it up and cumming again.

More time with foreplay activities with you would help as well. It delays his gratification while increasing your time to orgasm.

Have him masturbate first(or you do it for him) and get the initial one out of the way. That should lengthen it some.

I learned over many years how to stretch mine out, not that I ever came that fast, but I've done everything from thinking of gross things to deep breathing. He can also pull out when he gets close, and pleasure you in other ways until he gets control back.

I wouldn't say there's anything wrong with him, it's something we gain control of with time and experience. Is he up for doing it multiple times as soon as possible?

Actualy you could take it as a complement because when a guy is extreamly turned on by the female body he usualy ejaculates faster. see american pie 2. so he might be so turned on by you that he can't control it. I know a guy who cummed in his pants when a girl with a double d chest at a rock concert exposed her breasts and started rubbing rubbing alcohol on all over her chest. the guy ejaculated without the girl even touching him.

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Here is an article that might help you. He has no medical problem. Once penetration begins the average duration is 3 to 10 minutes. The key is more foreplay. I like to mix it up. A little foreplay a little penetration a little of this a little of that. You are going to be the one who has to do the switching after penetration has begun cause he won't want to stop. If the same is true for men as it is for me the longer the build up the bigger the bang. Tell him not to feel bad about the length of time but make sure you are getting yours!

There might be some medical reasons, but that is usually a rare case -- Cosmo talks about this stuff all of the time-- go on their website and check it out!

Do you guys have a lot of foreplay? because if you do a lot of foreplay sex might just be finishing for him-- maybe tell him to practice holding it back-- and next time you have sex tell him how amazing it was and encourage him- try not to mention right after sex about how short it was

also viagra will help him last longer (young guys use it too)

peace

durex makes these condoms called 'performax' and they have this stuff on them that when he's about to cum, it stops it and lets him go longer. and they work !